Hi, everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcasts. My name is Amber, and today I want to talk to you

about shifting your mindset when you don't want to end up alone. Before we get into that,

I want to share with you my free guide called copy and paste texts for when he's pulling away

or acting flaky. The link for that is going to be in the show notes of this episode. Also,

make sure that you get on the wait list for the next coaching program opening.

My coaching program is called From Dating to Exclusive, and I help you do exactly that.

I help you go from dating to exclusive in a much more confident, easy, straightforward, and supported way.

The program helps you create the end result, of course,

which is creating a healthy, loving relationship with a person who has all the five elements.

However, the other piece that's really important is the process for creating that.

I once really hated dating. I hated it. I hated it. And I felt

absolutely exhausted by it. And every single date that wasn't my person, I felt more and more

discouraged and rejection would hit me so hard.

And I just felt like I wasn't getting anywhere and I just didn't enjoy it literally at all.

And then I kept chugging along because I really wanted a relationship.

And I met somebody who I began a relationship with.

Now, once I was in that relationship, I was really happy.

But a lot of my happiness was about not dating anymore.

And of course, I was also really happy about that person, but there was also this

fear that was associated with being in that relationship because I hated dating so much

and it made me more anxious about the relationship that I was in because not only did I have

anxiety about losing that person, but I also had anxiety about ever having to date again.

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