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Rebecca welcome to the program.

Hi.

Hi.

Hi.

What can I do my question?

Well, my question is how I can deal with, or how I can talk to, or my husband talked to,

my stepdaughter, his daughter, and sort of

break the news to her that ourselves and her mom cannot throw her a quince in your

together.

And why is that?

Um gosh that will be a really long story but no and one sentence one sentence we can't do it

together because we can't trust her mom.

Trust her to do what?

So be a part of it or around us, I guess really my husband, she's caused my husband.

This sounds extremely vague. What concrete things would she or would she have you sat down with her and said let's play on the Kincinera?

No, she's only 13 so it's two years from now, but she's been asking about it a lot I think because

Have you sat down with her mother and said let's plan the case in era? She's your daughter, this is very meaningful to you. Any way I can help, let

me know what you'd like me to do to help prepare it, do it, tell me what you'd like. Why don't you try just being a mens, not we, you?

Okay, okay. You're the you. I could try, yes, I could do that. This is not something you try. This is a way to behave in a situation you never should have put yourself in in the first place.

Okay, I thought you would say that.

Yes, it was ridiculous for you to do this in the first place.

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