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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

I Don't Want To Break Up But I Need Some Space

Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

55.5K Ratings

🗓️ 22 December 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Have you heard of a couple that's Living Apart Together? In this episode, Shan interviews Ev'Yan Whitney, a sensualist, and author of the book "Your Sensual Self" about how they and their husband decided to live in different states after being together for 19 years, while still continuing to be married. Shan also interviews her parents, who have been married for 40 years, to see there's anything they could learn from Ev'Yan's story to better their own marriage.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Here in the UK we sell amazing products and services the whole world once.

0:05.0

At the Black Farmer in Devon our producers enjoyed on both sides of the Atlantic.

0:10.0

We're McKinnon and Saunders from Manchester and our puppets are watched on six continents.

0:15.0

Whilst at Acceleron in Birmingham our sustainable, recyclable batteries are helping power nine countries.

0:21.0

So if you make it in the UK, why not sell it to the world?

0:25.0

For free help from the UK government visit great.gov.uk

0:31.0

I listen to her story and it's like you're not living together apart.

0:35.0

You're living separately screwing other people.

0:37.0

It was a marriage and name only. It was just like I'm too lazy to get divorced.

0:41.0

What's up lovers and friends? Welcome to the podcast called the same damn thing.

0:46.0

Lovers and friends of podcasts. My name is Sham Boudrement.

0:49.0

I'm a sexologist who's been working as a public figure educator for 15 years.

0:54.0

I've talked about sex and relationships everywhere from the view to playboy and from YouTube to Netflix.

1:01.0

And this is the podcast where I bring everything and everyone I admire together in one place.

1:08.0

Each episode I'll be combined in my educational background in psychology,

1:12.0

sexology and journalism to deep dive into all things intimacy which I define as things under the umbrella of sex, relationships and attachments.

1:21.0

As you know, we start each episode with the question and by the end,

1:24.0

not only will you leave with some answers,

1:26.0

you're also going to leave with a hell of a lot to talk about with your own lovers and friends.

1:30.0

So today we are tackling the question.

1:32.0

If you used to live with your partner, but you both decide that instead,

1:36.0

someone has to move out.

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