So a guy can take her out on the date and she's got another,

she's seeing somebody else completely different.

That's why, you know, when they talk about talking stages and stuff, isn't it? Oh, has you made me, mum, is it official yet? Yeah, if it's not. Two guys are actually seeing each other. She's going out with multiple people and she won't tell them. And if you have to lie about what you did the day before,

that you're also a cheater as well in my eyes.

Okay, so this is in a non-official relationship, you're saying.

Yeah, in that one, non-official. And if you have to lie about what you did the day before, that you're also a cheater as well in my eyes.

Okay, so this is in a non-official relationship, you're saying. Yeah, and that one, non-official in it. If you're seeing... But I'm saying it makes you a liar because what did you do yesterday? Oh, oh, oh, no, I just went these times you were in Eden with Frank. Yeah, but I agree with that. But like this is, this is what I'm saying.

I'm not saying these things are not disrespectful.

Like I said at the beginning, I think that's correct. No man has to tell me that if you go out, I don't want other men feeding you alcohol down your throat. Whether or not cameras are there. I just don't think it's just not something that I necessarily would do. Maybe I've changed my mind in the relationship. I don't know, shit. But before you start saying, oh, I saw you at him one trad, one trad wedding now and somebody was giving you energy. But what I'm trying to say is I still think it's disrespectful, but I wouldn't say, like, say that's the reason I ended my relationship or something or a guy, my guy friend ended his relationship with his girl, if somebody were to ask me or why are they not together,

I wouldn't be like, oh, she cheated on him.

Yeah, facts. I get that, okay, yeah. I have a difference. Actually, I agree with that, though. As in, you'll be like, oh, well, maybe she was a dis... He did something that she didn't like. Yeah, I'd be like, that's... did something inappropriate.

I always feel like when it's evolving

like if you're doing it

and also because you feel like another man.

Like I don't know when it's like to do like another

like another man. Like I don't know when it's like to do like another gender feeling like another gender to be feeling some type of way about what your girl has. That's why I'm like, oh, the reason I struggle with that is because and I'm not even trying to be disrespectful. I just feel like men obviously have their egos. So it's like there's even some things that maybe I've like I've said this on the board before I've never been in a relationship right. So there's probably some stuff that is like maybe like we'll even have discussions as a three and we'll talk about something in a relationship and in my head I'm thinking that's totally fine. I'm like, you wouldn't do that if you're in a relationship right. I'm just like are you going to now offer somebody the grace not because that just because they didn't know and you're going to now tell me that that's cheating because i don't know like a man like let's even use your example in terms of like say malta for example where you're with your girls and a guy has offered to buy you a drink you don't want to be rude in that moment because even sometimes these guys, you don't even know what they're on sometimes. So then you now carry all of us as well and be like, oh yeah, I'm with my girls too. And then he also buys everyone a drink. You're adding to your adding. Oh, so. Because even if your man was there, you can still very much do that because your basis is, I was doing that from a safety point of you like I'm actually, My basis isn't, I'm just taking a drink, I'm enjoying it. Yeah, but if, what if there were no other girls?

Like, what if you were... because your basis is, I was doing that from a safety point of view, like, I'm actually, my basis isn't, I'm just taking a drink, I'm enjoying it.

Yeah, but if, what if there were no other girls? Like, what if you were on your way to the toilet and a guy was to buy you a drink? If your basis is that you can still feel like you can confidently do that with your man knowing that you did that and that's the reason why you did it, then obviously that's fine.

If you have to change and you have to lie and deceive yourself,

it's like, your man would, your man's not even, you did that and that's the reason why you did it. Then obviously that's fine. If you have to change and you have to lie and deceive yourself,

it's like your man would,

your man's not even hearing that.

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