We're going to do another dilemma to wrap up.

So would I be the asshole for not telling my friend about my wedding after what she did?

This was sent in.

A few years ago, I let a friend live with me while she wasn't working.

I was covering all the bills while working 16

hour shifts. Around that time, I had also just started dating my now fiancee. One Thursday when I got

paid, I gave her my bank card before leaving for work and told her to top up the electricity and buy

grocery since money was tight.

I also told her that I'd call the Wi-Fi company to extend the payment deadline.

After work, I went to my boyfriend's house like usual.

Later that night, I got a call from another friend screaming at me,

accusing me of leaving my roommate with no food and no electricity.

The thing is, she had my card the whole time and was the one that was supposed to handle the top-ups.

Then it got worse.

They found my boyfriend's Instagram and started insulting him, even telling me I should have stayed with my cheating ex instead.

I cut her off after that and she moved out.

Yeah, me too.

Yeah.

Months later, she apologised and we started speaking again, but things have never felt the same.

She still occasionally makes negative comments about my fiancé.

Now my wedding is coming up and I haven't told her about it or invited her.

Part of me feels guilty since we're technically on speaking terms again.

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