What's up real ones? Welcome back to the relationship podcast where we're bringing the real back to relationship. Yes sir.

I'm Asha Still and I'm Devon Still.

And we're so excited that you guys are tuning in today with us.

Yeah, man, you know what's crazy.

I was just thinking about this earlier.

We're like 90 days away from the year ending. Yes. Like we're

90 almost 90 days away from 2021 and it seems like you know not too long ago the ball just dropped and we

were celebrating you know 20 20 the year of you know clear vision for your life

right I know a lot of people just had a lot of big hopes for

for 2020 but you know life just hit everybody. Okay. We lost, yeah, we lost a lot of important people to our culture. We got hit with this pandemic and it really just messed up a lot of people's, you know, goals that they set for their lives.

So I know I hear a lot, you know people talking about they wish

2020 will be over with.

And you know sometimes I do feel the same way but when I look back at

you know 20-20 although it was a hard year there's a lot of memorable moments in 2020 and not especially for us with

us you know buying our first home which was a goal that we set out for ourselves

man big goal Leah turning five which was a goal that we set out for ourselves. Amazing.

A big goal.

Leah turning five years in remission, cancer-free,

celebrating, you know, Aria turning one years old.

Like there's a lot of important moments in 2020.

So, you know, I'm not the type of person that's like, oh, let's get 20, 20,

over with her.

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