After that, we were, it took me some time to figure out what I wanted to do.

It was a lot of thought process going back and forth because I was hurt.

Not only from her, but also like my ego was hurt.

I was angry with her, the other person, myself, even included.

And, you know, so it definitely, it took time.

During that time, I really, it was almost like a, it's almost like an instant switch, if you will.

I don't want to say instant switch, but kind of like a revelation of understanding how far I got away from God because I feel like

warning is always going to come before anything bad happens and I'm like this completely

blindsided me.

Hi, I am Raven and I'm Keith and we're the Harwells. Yes.

So at the beginning of our marriage, I cheated on my husband.

We got married at literally at 20 years old in 2013.

Yeah, and so upon us getting married, we were obviously young for one, but we were one couple out of many that we knew that was actually trying to take the serious steps of marriage.

And so during that time, it was a lot of learning curves that we had to go through not only on my wife's side, but also on mine as well, as far as understanding

how to truly be a husband and, you know, truly caring for her in the way that I needed to

and not, I guess, being young-minded in a sense of thinking that marriage is just bringing home

a paycheck and laying up with your wife.

Right.

And one thing that we truly always say is that we could never have done it without God.

I'm saying. Literally like in order for any relationship to work, it really takes Jesus. because the Bible even states that all hope is

found in him and him alone so we're just so honored and so grateful to be able to tell

this testimony but not only I would just give honor to Jesus for to be able to tell this

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