I came home early to surprise my wife with the vacation. I burst open the door to our bedroom and yelled

surprise and caught her in our bedroom with her boss. I was devastated, but I blocked the door

with a chair so they couldn't leave, stole his clothes so he was made to stand there awkwardly,

and then I forced them to confess everything while I recorded it. He asked if he could leave,

but I said not yet. Then I face time his wife to show her my wife and her husband standing there

in my bedroom. Here's how it happened and what happened after. Subscribe to Emma the jerk on

YouTube and hit the bell to turn on notifications. D-Day was 10 days ago on January 29th. I won't

forget that day now either because the day after our anniversary. Since then I have been reading a

lot of posts and it's been helpful to know that I'm not the only one. Now I think writing what

happened will help me out. It's gonna be long because I think minor details matter and I've

been playing it over and over in my head every day. So here's our story. I've been with my wife

for 29 years, married for 26 years. I'm a 51 year old male and she is 49. We have two grown kids,

a 24 year old son and a 22 year old daughter. We meet in college, dated, fell in love, married,

and I thought what I believe was a great marriage. We did a lot of things together. Talked all the

time, communicated about things that were troublesome. Both of us had successful careers that we both

supported each other in along the way. We had a great love life, maybe not as often as when we

were younger, but just as passionate. She's in IT and I own a small landscaping company that

employs 75 people that I started after graduation. She's been working home a lot since COVID and we've

been talking about my easing out of the day to day operations and her going part time so that we

can spend more time together and travel, etc. Now that the kids are established. Looking back,

there were no red flags that I've read so much about. No weird texting, no guarding her phone,

no clothing changes, no unusual behavior, no nights out with people from work. When she did go out,

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