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Find Your Food Voice

I can't control what I eat.

Find Your Food Voice

Julie Duffy Dillon RDN

Nutrition, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9750 Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2017

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary


If you've been trying to control what you eat for years I bet you are desperately needing a break. Fresh Love Food Podcast episode has insight. Pull up a chair and listen now for #foodpeace insight.

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Episode's Key Points:

  • Recovering from an eating disorder is SO different than recovery from an addiction... we NEED food! So how do we figure out how to navigate something that we struggle with, but that we have to engage with on a daily basis?
  • When we struggle with an eating disorder, food becomes the central focus of the brain. When we pursue recovery, it's no wonder that food is still on our minds! We have to retrain our brain, and rewire it so that over time, it stops obsessing over the food.
  • Lean into the resentment, anger, and exhaustion! These emotions are present for a reason. Ask yourself, who DESERVES this resentment and anger? This resentment and anger should be directed at our cultural expectations for the human body and for womanhood.
  • Food is there to NOURISH us, not punish us.
  • Recovery from an eating disorder is HARD WORK, and it's made harder by the fact that our culture still needs to recover from its own eating disorder. You keep getting mixed messages!
  • We HAVE to feel our feelings, and examine them to figure out what their messages are for us... otherwise they'll keep resurfacing.
  • Even when things feel hard, remember that you are STILL moving forward.
  • Work with a therapist to help you muddle through this stage!
  • Some practical advice: keep some easy, low-prep, go-to foods on hand at all times! Use these foods when you need a break, but you still want to make sure you're getting the nutrients you need.
  • Food's important, but it's not everything. It doesn't have to always be the most pleasurable or nourishing experience... it can just be food!
  • Food might become boring. That's normal! Try to schedule a meal or snack once a week that you eat with someone else to help support you through this stage.
  • Food is a connector!
  • Food is not supposed to be thought about all the time. Instead, it's a part of our lives, and our relationships should be taking central focus.

Show Notes:

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:32.1

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0:39.9

Say goodbye to the food police and hello to peace. Welcome to the love food podcast, hosted by

0:46.9

dietitian and food behavior expert Julie Duffy Dillon. This authentically engineered series is in

0:53.4

the form of a love letter, welcoming you to

0:56.2

reconnect with food. Now pour a cup of coffee or a margarita, and let's begin.

1:10.8

Hi and welcome to episode 85 of a loved food podcast. I'm Julie Duffy Dillon, registered

1:19.1

dietitian, and partner on your food piece journey. I'm so glad you're here. Thank you for connecting

1:25.0

today. I want to start this episode with a question.

1:30.1

How long have you had a complicated relationship with food? Well, for most people I talk to,

1:37.0

it's not a new thing. They've had this complicated relationship with food that feels like a love,

1:42.6

hate relationship for many, many years. And they're

1:46.9

really tired. Over time, that constant fatigue leads to lots of anger and resentment for so many

1:54.0

people I talk to you. I wonder if you can relate. Well, I have a letter from someone who is

1:59.6

speaking about that experience, and she's feeling so

2:02.8

much resentment toward food because of this really complicated, chaotic roller coaster that she's

2:08.4

been on. And she almost wishes she could just like take a pill every day instead of having to

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