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George Campbell joined by Jay Worshaw this hour and the number to call is

triple eight eight two five five two two five you jump in we'll talk about

your life and your money and hopefully give you the right next step for your

financial future Natalie kicks off this hour in Charlotte North Carolina

Natalie welcome to the show. Hello thank you for having me. Absolutely how can we

help? Well first of all I'm going to just say right off the

rip that my husband and I have separate finances basically due to on my end

there's some narcissistic tendencies over there some emotional abuse we've

been together about six seven years so we are separate there we do have an

emergency fund we're on baby steps four five and six and we have some cash on

at home hidden and some in the bank obviously and so I found out after some

kind of bigger fight that he's been taking from the emergency fund without my

me knowing and I thought I could trust him so I've honestly never thought

it's counted and come to find out he's been spending that as cash and keeping

money in his account for himself so I've never been so close honestly with

that and some of the emotional abuse I've never been so close to considering

separation I've offered counseling as an option and that is not an option why

he said no to cancel it refuses he refuses yes doesn't believe in it so now I'm

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