Husband Chat: Loving Your Wife from Purity Culture to Pure Pleasure (#165)
Heaven In Your Home
Francie Winslow
4.9 • 660 Ratings
🗓️ 14 August 2023
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
Shame and feeling shut down or disconnected from sex can be a residue of purity culture many women carry. How can a God-honoring man help his wife flourish and heal from wrong beliefs and teaching?
In this episode Francie is sharing how a husband can patiently love his wife toward more healing and freedom. A few topics we touch on include: training your eyes to only see her beauty, having patience to meet her where she is, going slowly as you learn together, blessing her body and encouraging her to bless her body and learning the pace of her pleasure.
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Foreplay: Husband Chat, Ep 159
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| 0:00.0 | Hey everybody, today we have an episode that is for the husbands. |
| 0:07.2 | It is how to love your wife from purity culture to pure pleasure. |
| 0:11.8 | These are based on my story. |
| 0:13.3 | It's not what will work for everyone. |
| 0:14.9 | It's not necessarily even what I would say would be linked to any guarantees |
| 0:20.6 | because there are no guarantees, |
| 0:21.9 | there are no formulas. There is simply faith and trust and building secure attachment. |
| 0:27.5 | And the things that I've talked about in today's episode helped Wyatt and me do that. |
| 0:33.2 | It was based on our journey of leaning in together, of why it really showing up in a way that was |
| 0:39.1 | full of integrity, consistency, and patience. And so a husband reached out to me with a question, |
| 0:45.1 | which I'll share in the episode, and that kind of inspired this conversation because I think a lot |
| 0:49.8 | of us are in that boat of needing to heal and be restored. And what's beautiful is that God gave us marriage |
| 0:56.1 | as a context for that to happen. So I hope you enjoy today's episode. And without further ado, |
| 1:02.5 | here you go. Hey everybody, this is Francie. Thanks for coming back for another episode. If you are new |
| 1:09.1 | here, I am so glad you're here. I would suggest |
| 1:11.8 | diving into this episode and then if you want to, go right back to episode number one and start |
| 1:17.3 | working your way through at least the first 12 episodes. It really helps to lay a foundation for |
| 1:22.0 | a really different way of seeing our bodies, sexuality, and the gift of married sex. |
| 1:26.8 | That is always what I recommend |
| 1:28.0 | to people. Go start episode one and work through the first several and then after that piece together |
| 1:32.7 | what it is. You feel like you're interested in learning. But no matter what, I'm so glad you're here. |
| 1:37.1 | Today we're talking about the role of a good man, a good husband in helping to bring about restoration and healing for his wife who has |
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