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Retail Therapy by Sunday Scaries

Hurkle Durkle, Yutori, and New Hobby Frustrations | The Sunday Scaries Podcast

Retail Therapy by Sunday Scaries

Sunday Scaries

Arts, Fashion & Beauty

4.62.2K Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2024

⏱️ 15 minutes

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A special edition of The Sunday Scaries Podcast. This week, I tackled the frustration of learning a new skill or hobby, the leisure-inspired Scottish concept of “Hurkle Durkle,” and creating space in your daily life using “yutori.”

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0:00.0

My name's Will DeFreeze, and this of the time a seat was all I needed.

0:21.0

It was a park bench dedicated to someone for how often I sat there. I should

0:26.8

remember the names like the back of my hand. Unfortunately most times I sat there, I was honestly trying to forget things. It sat about 10 feet

0:35.8

from the edge of the water. Most mornings the water was calm enough that any movement was worth

0:40.7

turning your head for.

0:42.8

Outside of the occasional goose honk,

0:45.2

it was quiet enough that those movements

0:47.2

didn't even require a glance.

0:49.6

A duck dipping its head underwater,

0:51.9

a water moccasin assessing its prey, a kayaker dipping their paddle back into the water after having a moment.

0:58.0

When you go for a walk without your phone these days, you begin to realize how slow time can actually feel.

1:04.8

In those moments when I'd sit by the water I didn't find myself needing to check the time.

1:09.6

If anything, once I found out what time it was, I'd be taken aback that it hadn't been longer.

1:16.0

Ten minutes simply feels longer when you're alone with your thoughts.

1:19.9

And that's a good thing, I think. In those moments when I can't get outside and I'm sitting at my desk,

1:26.4

my brain naturally wanders off. My online destination for that very wandering off is

1:32.4

tumbler, a site where I don't see any

1:35.0

friends, it's a place where I don't know anyone's personality, a space where there

1:40.0

are only photos and videos presented largely without comment. And despite Tumblr's

1:44.7

knack for getting a bit too emotional at times, there are still moments that give me pause.

1:50.3

Just recently, one of those moments showed itself in a handwritten note that was then photographed and put online.

1:56.0

You know, the total opposite of why you'd actually write a note in the first place.

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