#HURDLEMOMENT: The Biggest Mistakes We Make When Looking for a Relationship
Hurdle with Emily Abbate
iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 30 June 2021
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
Oh man. If you listen to the show, you know I am the ~most~ awkward when it comes to talking about dating. But fact is, your personal relationships are a big part of your overall wellness, so for today's episode I'm bringing in the backup. Meet Rainie Howard, an award-winning author, lifestyle strategist and relationship expert who helps others evolve through lessons of love, health, and entrepreneurship. We're unpacking the biggest mistakes women make when looking for a relationship, including if we should even be "looking" in the first place. Obviously, A LOT of different views on seeking out love — from how soon is too soon to get intimate to how you should show up for a first date. Loved this convo and bringing it to the feed!
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| 0:00.0 | if you can't be comfortable in your own skin just being who you are that right there is a sign like |
| 0:07.6 | okay maybe there's some things you should be working on as you go through this dating process |
| 0:14.0 | because if you're constantly thinking about oh I wonder what he likes I wonder what he would want |
| 0:18.0 | me to wear I wonder you know I hear women say that I wonder should I do this or should what he |
| 0:22.7 | what do he think if he likes it I'll do it but it's like no what do you like what what makes you feel |
| 0:28.8 | comfortable and happy and focus more on that hey everyone Emily a body here you are listening to |
| 0:48.8 | another installment of hurdle moment from hurdle it has been a minute since I have kind of |
| 0:55.5 | ye explained so to speak the different segments of the show so I'm going to take a second to do |
| 1:00.9 | that today you know the drill on Mondays I'm bringing you some of my favorite long form interviews with |
| 1:06.8 | guests that inspire me from top CEOs to elite athletes on Wednesdays I bring you this hurdle moment |
| 1:14.8 | series and for hurdle moment I am diving into evergreen topics so to speak stuff that's relevant |
| 1:20.8 | all year long that often comes from questions I get in my DMs things that you want to know about |
| 1:28.8 | from the biggest takeaways I have from running nine different marathons to how to seek out therapy |
| 1:35.4 | and what to know before you go all different topics in the health and wellness space and then on |
| 1:40.0 | Fridays a sweet little cap off to the week I bring you five minute Friday where I tell you a story |
| 1:46.0 | from my week or something that's been on my mind lately then I offer you a thought prompt I answer |
| 1:50.5 | a listener question and I give you my highlights my content picks etc and that's the hurdle rundown |
| 1:56.7 | as of now anyway today on the show I am chatting with Rainy Howard she's an award winning author |
| 2:04.1 | she's a relationship expert and she helps others evolve through lessons of love and health |
| 2:10.5 | and entrepreneurship we are I never talk about dating on the show but let's be real I mean your |
| 2:16.4 | personal life your personal wellness is just as important as your mental illness moving your |
| 2:22.6 | body you get the drill so I decided to dabble in a little bit of uncomfortable territory because |
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