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The Curious Girl Diaries

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.0 • 596 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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0:27.7	combe.
0:31.6	Hey everyone. Welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast.
0:35.8	I'm Leila London, aka The Curious Girl. Now just to let you know, this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for anybody under 18. But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my sex life, sex in general, and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun
0:57.0	detail. All right, here we go. In the dating market where I was being assessed sexually, am I
1:08.9	fuckable or not, am I attractive or not? I am so grateful. I'm a woman
1:13.4	and I don't have to deal with that the way men do. One in three men under 30 in the US reported
1:19.3	no sex in the past year. That's triple the rate from 2008. Millennials and Gen Zs are having less
1:25.2	sex than any generation since records began.
1:28.4	Social atrophy is directly connected to what is often called the sexual recession.
1:34.2	I haven't experienced that with partners that have a hard time maintaining their erections.
1:39.0	I've worried that if I watch pornography, that I will desensitize myself to the real thing.
1:46.7	The British Medical Journal says that married couples in the UK and US report a steady decline
1:50.5	in sexual frequency. How can I be satisfied with just one sexual partner?
1:55.5	I have been unfaithful with my partner in the past, and I feel guilty about it should I tell them?
2:07.8	Hey everyone, welcome to the Curris Girl Larry's podcast. I am Layla. Happy Saturday, guys.
2:17.3	All right, I am so excited. I'm going to be doing kind of a reaction.
2:22.0	This reaction is going to be to a podcast with the diary of a CEO and Esther Perel. Now, Esther
2:32.0	Perrell is like a dream guest for me, guys. I do not have a show big enough to attract
2:37.2	the wonderful miss Esther Perrell, but I absolutely love her advice and I haven't listened to her
2:44.3	and watched her in quite a while. And the dating scene has changed. And I've been kind of talking
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