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He Said, She Said

How well do Louise and Ryan ACTUALLY know each other?!

He Said, She Said

Astrid

Society & Culture, Couple, Therapy, Relationships, Advice, Personal Journals, Relationship

4.8697 Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2025

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Louise and Ryan create their own love maps this week in a bid to see how compatible they really are…


In this episode, Louise and Ryan see how well they know their partner by visualising what their dream future looks like, understanding what stresses them out and navigating how their childhood has shaped the person they’ve become.


Plus, Louise and Ryan discuss what they believe the other values the most and how their past relationships have influenced how they show up for each other…


Send your voice memos or stories to [email protected] for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.


Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbey


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Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid



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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Delwyn, Collie Gerardazda Hayes.

0:02.2

And there are a few things that are always on my family's shopping list. Luckily, loads of them are now on rollback. That's right, Delwyn. We're rolling back a 900-mill carton of Tropicana orange juice from £3.7 to £2.26. And a 48 pack of Purcell non-bio washing capsules from £10.98 to £8 £8. Now that's good on its value. That's Asda Price.

0:02.1

Selected stores subject to available washing capsules from £10.98 to £8 £8. Now that's good on its value. That's Asda price.

0:23.7

Selected stores subject to availability. Tropicana ends 23 July. May exclude Asda Express and small

0:28.1

stores. See asda.com slash small stores.

0:33.2

Hello and welcome to He Said, She Said. This is the show where we bear all about our relationship in a bid to encourage you guys to have those difficult conversations and build long lasting healthy partnerships. Yes it is. Look at your purple gown. Thank you. Oh, you didn't even say a compliment. I said thank you.

0:51.7

That was badly. You look like something about sex in the city over there.

0:54.5

Well, on the note of that, she is on my vision board. I thought we could do something cool today,

0:59.6

which is create like a bit of a love board. Right. Okay. Is this something that we like do with our

1:04.2

hands or just talk about it? Well, you know what? One of the girls I work with, she

1:09.8

did something with her partner last weekend where she

1:13.5

actually did create these vision boards, but they were like love boards. And it was a way of

1:20.6

making sure that her and her partner were aligned on certain things. But I think that this idea of like

1:26.0

a love map takes it to the next level because

1:28.1

what I'm going to try and do is to try and create your vision board for you or explain how I see

1:35.4

it and then to see whether I'm actually whether I actually know you really well and then you can do

1:41.9

the opposite for me and there are different kind of like themes. So I'll basically go through your, what I think to be your dreams, goals and aspirations. We can then see how it long to hear on that. Okay. It's a bit like what's that game show where like you have to get, you want to both get the same answer, right? Like you ask a question and one has, you've already answered. Is that Mr. and Mrs? No. I know what you mean. What's the game show? Well, like, you very put your partner type thing. Yeah, that kind of thing. And then I'll go through your past, childhood, previous relationships and how I think that those have shaped you as a person. Bloody hell, this is. This is assuming you know me inside out. Look at like triggers maybe that you have and why you might struggle with them. What the hell? And then look at like your morals, values and things that are important to you. So basically we're doing a therapy session on Ryan. You're going to go deep into my involvement here. No, I'm going to keep it light and we're going to also flip it around. so I don't want you to get stressed. Right, so you're basically going to, you're going to go deep into my vault here. No, I'm going to keep it light and we're going to also flip it around so I don't want you to get stressed. Right. So you're going to you're,

2:37.4

you're going to, I feel like I'm on, uh, this is your life with Parkinson. This is about to what's, this is what's about to happen, isn't it? Go on, tell me what you think you know about my life. It's also quite nice to talk about someone else for a change instead of us just talking about...

2:34.2

Go on. Tell me how you see my life. I want to see how...

2:37.2

Okay, so, right, we've got... I used to talk about someone else for a change instead of us just talking about... Go on. Tell me how you see my life. I want to see how...

2:52.6

Okay, so, right, we've got big... what are they called? VW. Camper van, but like big one. Like, that on steroids.

3:00.2

So we've got like bunk beds for friends, cousins.

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