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You mentioned people don't have waffles and spaghetti at the same time.

Not typically.

And it actually is kind of the point.

Because one of the big points of our book is if you want to get your needs met and marriage, you need to take turns.

And if you take turns meeting each other's needs, it tends to go really well.

If you try to force them to get met at the same time, you tend to get in conflict.

Well, that's Bill Ferrell describing how husbands and wives interact in marriage,

often coming from very different perspectives.

And maybe you've seen some of those differences in your relationship.

Bill and his wife, Pam, are back with us today on Focus on the Family.

And thank you for joining us as well.

Your host is Focus President and author Jim Daly and I'm John Fuller.

And John, we had a fun conversation last time with Bill and Pam about common differences between men and women.

And if you're scratching your head saying there really is no difference with me and my spouse, look a little deeper.

It's got to be there.

And as we shared last time, these are God-designed differences.

I think he did this on purpose.

I've often thought, and I think Gary Thomas wrote about this, but I often thought, Lord, why did you bring opposites together?

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