How Two Therapists Got Into A Fight and How They Repaired

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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0:00.0	Hey Harry.
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0:23.3	18 plus opt in and bet on any football marketing at odds of evens or greater no, cash out seven-day expiry terms and conditions apply at gamblerware.org. Welcome to Relationship Advice. My name is Lauren Mokeri, and I am joined by my friends and co-hosts,
0:49.8	Culture Bloxum, and Kayla Bozovich. We are three licensed professional counselors who bring all of our
0:56.2	passion and knowledge about attachment, trauma, anxiety, and relationships to the conversations
1:03.5	that we have here on the podcast where we really emphasize that knowing ourselves more deeply
1:09.2	helps us to deepen connections with others. And one of the things
1:14.2	that I get asked a lot as a therapist from clients, whether in couples work or group work,
1:21.0	when we're talking about a lot of these concepts that we share about on the podcast, is,
1:26.1	you know, hey, Lauren, as a professional, like all of these
1:28.7	things that you're teaching us, all of these skills, like, do you really use these things
1:32.9	in your real life? Like, did these things really work? Do you actually practice these things?
1:39.7	And this actually is a thing that I think differentiates like okay therapists from great therapists.
1:45.6	Like I really do believe that like everything that we talk about, we absolutely have to be doing in our day to day lives.
1:52.3	And so we wanted to do something a little bit different for today's episode.
1:56.1	Instead of just picking a topic to teach on, we wanted to use a recent real-time example of how some of these
2:05.7	skills that we talk about have been used in our own lives. And specifically, there was a recent
2:12.2	conflict that came up between culture and Kayla. So we're going to use something really real
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