Oftentimes we can live vicariously through our kids and their success becomes our success right

Their failure becomes our failure and if we're not careful we will place a burden on our kids to ask them and demand of them something

that they were never designed to do which is to fulfill a point of pain that we have

in our own life. Welcome to Family Life today where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Shelby Abbott and your hosts are Dave and Ann Wilson.

You can find us at family life today.com. This is family life today. Okay, we're talking about parenting, raising the next generation.

I love these topics.

Yeah, and we got Dr. Colin Outerbridge back with us. You're an amazing dad.

I just got to tell you listening to you. I haven't met Stacy. I don't know your kids. I think she's an amazing mom and I'm happy to be a part of her family that's what I bet I mean

Very humble. Seriously the wisdom what the strategies you guys I guarantee parents have been listening the last couple

days or making decisions that are different than what they've been doing based on

sort of model that you've been given us which is awesome and if you haven't

listened go back and listen to them.

This is going to be gold for you as a parent, things that you can implement in your home.

Yeah, and I love it.

It's really some ways coming from a series you did at your church, kids these days, really teaching parents and families,

how do we raise the next generation to love Jesus as adults?

You know, you start with this idea.

You got to know what the enemy strategy is in high school as a

quarterback we get to the state playoffs in Ohio which is you know big-time

football Ohio not Florida Ohio I'm just I'm kidding. Ohio had pretty good

football but not like Florida that's true trust me I'm just kidding. Oh, I'm kidding. Oh, I'm just.

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