How to Work with Different Attachment Styles - Jayson Gaddis and Ellen Boeder - 313

Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2020

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Here’s a scenario: You want to talk about something that is bothering you, but your partner tells you they need some time to think and walks away.

You end up feeling frustrated and ignored for the rest of the day. Sounds familiar, right? Then this new podcast will shed some serious light on this dynamic.

If you are interested in attachment dynamics, you’ll appreciate this podcast.

My wife Ellen and I answer some of your questions about attachment styles posted directly from our Instagram followers

Shownotes:

4:10 Understanding and healing what pushes your partner away
9:05: Working together with others who have a different attachment style
16:50: Willingness to work on yourself and with others
19:50: What if you or your partner struggle with being empathetic
25:00 Action Step

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0:00.0	It's very hard to move towards security as a couple if one of you doesn't want to do the work.
0:05.0	If someone is just not interested in like evolving themselves and learning how to be considerate toward you and be fair,
0:11.0	it's not going to go episode. Hey what's up and welcome back to another episode of the
0:35.4	Relationship Schools podcast. I'm your host Jason Gatis and I'm grateful to get
0:39.9	this opportunity to help you with your relational life. Okay, this podcast of course is all about
0:47.1	relationships, family, friends, and intimate partnerships, business relationships, etc. And you'll notice that we have couples on here, we have my wife, we have me. Sometimes the sessions are short, sometimes they're long, there's interviews with leading experts all over the world in mind and health, neuroscience.
1:07.0	Yeah, and I think this has been an awesome journey.
1:12.0	And I'm glad you're with me, you're new or returning. I want to
1:16.9	thank everybody for leaving reviews. Here's one from Laura. So much value here.
1:21.7	This podcast has truly been life- changing and is having a massive impact on how I show up for my relationships with others and also my relationship with myself.
1:29.0	Jason has a spirit of kindness and loving acceptance that makes it okay to break down and own your shit because he then
1:34.8	takes you by the hand and creates a place where you can be safe to repair and rebuild in ways that
1:38.8	will serve you better. He's the friend we all need.
1:40.8	Ah, thanks Laura, that's super sweet of you. So Laura, thanks.
1:46.1	Sounds like Laura has been listening for a while and if you've gotten value here what
1:51.5	you can do is just say thank you by leaving us a review.
1:54.7	You know, 300 plus episodes, totally free. If you would take a couple of minutes of your time and leave us a five-star written review, that would be amazing.
2:06.0	That way we can reach more people.
2:08.0	Cool? Thanks.
2:10.0	All right, in this episode, my wife and I are talking about attachment.
2:14.0	Primarily we zero in on how to deal with attachment styles differences in the styles.
2:20.0	We're not going to get into the drill down into the styles specifically.
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