How To Use Indifference & Mystery To Get Her Hooked On You

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2026

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to use indifference & mystery to get her hooked on you.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 30 year old viewer who’s been following my work for years. He writes about how he was surprised that he got ghosted by a girl that knocked his socks off when he tried to set the second date. I point out where he went wrong and deviated too much from the principles in 3% Man.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic today's
0:05.5	newsletter is going to be, how to use indifference and mystery to get her hooked on you.
0:11.8	So this particular email is from a viewer who didn't do that even though he says he's been
0:16.0	following me for several years.
0:19.4	When we look at how he operated on this first date and especially right after the first date,
0:25.8	obviously came off as a little too over-eager, I say it all the time.
0:29.4	You're trying to go slightly slower than the woman is.
0:33.0	And the book is designed to help you be unpredictable and mysterious and a man who's taken his time
0:41.2	a guy that she has time and space away from you to wonder about you to think about you and for
0:47.2	her feelings to develop and this guy said that it had a first date that he thought was great
0:54.1	they kissed a couple times
0:56.6	and she told them she didn't like PDA so that tells me that he's kissing her when she's not
1:02.2	open to it but in his eyes she just totally knocked his socks off so I you know she's probably
1:08.3	like his kryptonite he just basically fell apart he says
1:12.6	he's been following me for several years doesn't have a girlfriend but you know if he's behaving
1:18.7	this way after following me for several years with a girl he really likes he's got some work to do
1:23.7	he's got to he's got to exercise self-control and trust the process is laid out in the book.
1:30.4	Because if your interest is here and hers is here, you can raise it, but if you overdo it and
1:35.3	you over-communicate your interest, and plus he met her online, and it's like he basically went
1:41.0	weak in the knees for her, and the game went playing from the book, just went right out the window.
1:46.0	And so he tried to set a second date, literally the very next day after they had their first date.
1:51.0	And she just completely ignored him.
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