How to Treat Men Better - Alison Armstrong - #1026

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 5.9K Ratings

🗓️ 29 November 2025

⏱️ 181 minutes

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Summary

Alison Armstrong is a relationship coach, speaker, and author. Are modern gender dynamics leaving men feeling ‘castrated’? While men are often blamed for today’s social problems, far less attention is given to how shifting expectations of women and relationships may also shape male identity. What role do women play in this dynamic—and how can it be improved? Expect to learn how important it is for women to seem impressed or giddy or appreciative of their partner, how women can appear more receptive or appreciative, why men are being emasculated by women, how women can stop castrating men and much more… Timestamps: (0:00) The Search for Heaven on Earth (5:28) Are Men Really As Simple As They Seem? (14:53) Why Safety Shapes Women’s Choices (25:14) The Twelve Foundations of True Compatibility (31:03) The Four Traits That Make Women Irresistibly Charming (40:02) Why Men Thrive on Being Needed (52:04) Are Independent Women Emasculating Men? (01:02:57) Surrender vs. Submission: The Trust Dilemma (01:14:42) When Your Needs Begin to Break the Relationship (01:24:08) How Women Accidentally Teach Men to Shut Down (01:36:22) The Hidden Triggers That Make Men Feel Small (01:56:54) Should Women Prioritise Taking Care of Men? (02:01:39) The Three Energies of the Attractive Man (02:15:41) Do All Babies Really Look Like Their Fathers? (02:26:37) The Actions That Earn Men the Most Love (02:38:36) Why Women Want Men Who Think Like Them (02:45:23) What's Next for Alison? Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get a free bottle of D3K2, a Welcome Kit, Travel Packs, plus Black Friday bonus gifts (US only) when you first subscribe at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get the brand new Whoop 5.0, your first month for free, plus Black Friday bonus offers at https://join.whoop.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Download Alison's E-Book: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/5983h4ke⁠ (Click 'for ME' and use code AlisonGift 2025 at checkout) Find out more about Alison's programs: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/4cd96kh5 Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You asked why it is that I wanted to speak to you and that you were surprised that I would.
0:04.5	I can't believe that you're surprised that I would want to speak to you.
0:07.8	I think the stuff that I've learned about you and your work is, I think you're phenomenal.
0:13.0	I think you're absolutely wonderful.
0:14.4	I think the idea of working collaboratively to help women get more out of men as in treat men in a way that they
0:30.4	want to be treated that causes them to behave in the best way that they can to serve their
0:37.0	partner to create this alchemy that ever refines and in the best way that they can to serve their partner,
0:43.2	to create this alchemy that ever refines and transcends and includes,
0:45.6	I think is wonderful. I think it's fantastic.
0:47.5	Thank you.
0:52.8	It's a privilege.
0:54.8	What is it that you're trying to achieve
0:57.3	With your work?
1:00.5	Heaven and earth
1:01.6	Love
1:04.3	People choosing love
1:06.8	Again and again and again over everything else
1:09.8	It's probably the easiest way to describe it.
1:13.8	There's a lot of different routes to heaven on earth.
1:18.1	Yes.
1:19.6	What's the one that you've chosen?
1:23.3	Um...
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