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🗓️ 10 August 2025
⏱️ 87 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | This is the Edmiler Show. |
| 0:08.7 | Hey everyone, welcome to my weekend special. I hope you enjoy the show. Be sure to follow the Edmilette |
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| 0:18.6 | Dr. James Doty, thank you for coming here today, Dr. Doty, and welcome to the show. |
| 0:22.6 | I'd like if you would just for a second, just because I think it's so practical and real, and it's in the book. And by the way, you guys, this book is so thick with so many different things in it. We could do a four-hour podcast and you should still go get the book because the few things that we'll be able to cover on today's show don't do the book justice. |
| 0:37.8 | But I learned a lot and I actually wrote down the process that Ruth took you through for my own benefit. |
| 0:45.0 | And so would you mind at least kind of going over some of that process for everybody? |
| 0:48.8 | Because candidly, for me, I sat in this room yesterday and I wrote out that process for myself to use to calm myself down even at this age. |
| 0:57.3 | So would you share some of that, please? |
| 1:00.0 | Are you talking about taming the heart or opening the heart and taming the mind and relaxing the body? |
| 1:06.6 | Yes, particularly the relaxing the body part is what resonated with me. |
| 1:10.5 | Yeah, well, people who grow up in these challenging environments, again, it's like your goldfish in a fish bowl, but the water's dirty. |
| 1:20.4 | And if that's all you've lived in, you have no idea that the way you're feeling or acting or how you're responding to the world actually is not |
| 1:29.6 | beneficial for you. And like so many veterans who've been in the war zone, they not only have |
| 1:37.4 | trauma from being in the war zone, but they have post-traumatic stress disorder. And so one of the |
| 1:42.4 | things you ultimately have to do is you have to emotionally |
| 1:44.5 | regulate. And this is because in these types of situations, your sympathetic nervous system, |
| 1:53.0 | your flight, fight, or freeze response is chronically activated. And you don't appreciate it, |
| 1:57.8 | but all of your muscles are tight, you're always looking around. |
| 2:06.3 | So the first thing she taught me was a traditional mindfulness practice of relaxing the body. |
| 2:10.5 | And literally, we went from the tip of the toes to the top of the head. |
| 2:18.6 | Now, I have to tell you, he's a 12-year-old, I had no self-awareness, and, you know, I was doing this. |
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