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How to talk toddler

Life Kit

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Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Education, Business

4.33.9K Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2025

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Toddlerhood is a big and beautiful period of self-discovery. Kids are picking up new cognitive and motor skills and learning language a mile a minute. But there are some behaviors in this age range that can be confusing, frustrating or spirit-breaking for parents, like tantrums, hitting, stealing toys and more. This episode, Life Kit reporter Andee Tagle helps you decode your toddler's behavior and address it more strategically.

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0:00.0

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0:24.1

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0:35.0

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0:40.2

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0:45.1

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0:52.9

Hey, it's Mariel.

0:55.0

Welcome, weary travelers.

0:59.8

If you've tuned into this episode, you have likely journeyed to the mysterious and often

1:04.6

maddening realm known as toddlerhood.

1:07.5

Watch your step.

1:08.7

The terrain is rocky here, and the view is a little strange, with buildings

1:12.8

made of Legos and covered in finger paint, and a boisterous, wildly unpredictable population fueled

1:18.7

by apple juice and mini muffins. For us extraterrestrial adults, the laws of this loud and colorful

1:26.4

land can often seem entirely illogical.

1:29.3

The rules of ownership are really different when I'm two and three, because the rules go,

1:33.3

if it's mine, it's mine. If it's yours and I want it, it's also mine.

1:37.3

If I had it yesterday and you have it now and I want it, it's mine.

1:41.3

This is pediatric psychologist Roger Harrison at the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia.

1:46.3

He knows how to speak toddler.

1:52.5

Roger says one of the fundamental things to understand about this moment is that it's as new and as

1:57.9

bewildering for the child as it is for you.

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