meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
How To! with Mike Pesca

How To Talk Politics Without Wrecking Relationships

How To! with Mike Pesca

Peach Fish Projects

Education, How To

4.32K Ratings

🗓️ 13 October 2020

⏱️ 35 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

On a recent phone call Shannon's mom didn't mince words: The only way she'd vote for Joe Biden is if Jesus himself comes down and tells her to. Growing up in a conservative household, Shannon understands her parents' support for Trump. But she no longer sees eye-to-eye with them and every time they talk about politics it turns into a fight. The result is a complete fraying of their relationship. In this episode of How To!, we bring on Bill Doherty, professor of family social science at the University of Minnesota, and co-founder of the non-profit Braver Angels, to help Shannon and her parents navigate this heated election season. The most important thing to remember, Bill says, is that you can't change your parents' minds. But you can still save your relationship by recognizing shared values and treating each other as people, not political opponents.

If you liked this episode, check out "How To Get a Stubborn Parent to Listen."

Do you have a relationship you'd like to mend? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show.

Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Have you ever thought, ugh, this water is too wet?

0:04.0

Or this beach is too sandy.

0:06.0

My name's Christine.

0:08.0

And my name is Sandy.

0:09.0

And we're the host of Beach Too Sandy, Water Too Wet.

0:11.0

A podcast where we do dramatic readings of the most wild and off-the-wall reviews on the internet.

0:16.0

We find the funniest real reviews about everything from Vegas weddings, matchmaking services

0:21.4

and Trader Joe's, caves toddler beds and Spirit

0:24.5

Halloween. You won't believe the things that people think absolutely must be

0:28.1

said on the internet. How else would everyone know that some caves don't have

0:31.1

Wi-Fi? We hear about the good, the bad, and that one time

0:34.0

time Spirit Halloween sent someone a dildo instead of a Halloween

0:37.0

costume and believe it or not we got to the bottom of it.

0:39.8

Join us every Wednesday wherever you listen to your podcast.

0:43.4

Beechi Sandy Water Toet is brought to you by the Forever Dog Podcast network.

0:47.0

Hey everybody, it's Tim Heidecker, you know me, Tim and Eric, Bridesmaids, and Fantastic Four.

0:52.0

I'd like to personally invite you to listen to office hours live with me and my co-host DJ.

0:57.0

Doug Pound and Vic Berger.

1:00.0

Every week we bring you laughs, fun, games, and lots of other surprises. It's live. We take your Zoom calls. We love having fun. Excuse me?

1:06.7

Songs. Vicks said something.

1:08.3

Music. I like having fun. I like to laugh. I like to meet people who can make me laugh please subscribe

1:17.8

You know the original idea for this episode was that you were going to come on with your parents.

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Peach Fish Projects, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Peach Fish Projects and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2026.