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Modern Wisdom

How To Take Charge Of Your Life's Direction - Tim Urban - #558

Modern Wisdom

Chris Williamson

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.65.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2022

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Tim Urban is one of the internet's most popular writers and the founder of Wait But Why. When we look to our past, many of us believe that we could have behaved differently, perhaps that we should have behaved differently. Yet when we look to the future we believe that our path is locked in and genuine change is difficult, this couldn't be more backward and Tim explains it in a number of obvious, face-palm-inducing ways. Expect to learn what Tim thinks about Elon's takeover of Twitter, why leisure time when you're not supposed to be having leisure time is a curse, why you should absolutely not marry the wrong person, Tim's best advice for dealing with procrastination, how he copes with criticism from strangers and peers, how to avoid dwelling on decisions you didn't make and much more... Sponsors: Get $100 off plus an extra 15% discount on Qualia Mind at https://neurohacker.com/modernwisdom (use code MW15) Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 4.0 at https://www.manscaped.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% discount on House Of Macadamias’ nuts at https://houseofmacadamias.com/modernwisdom (use code MW20) Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (00:19) How Sword-fights Are Legal in Texas (05:11) Life is Too Short to Waste Time (12:44) Mistaking the Comfortable for the Enjoyable (17:49) How to Not Dwell on Painful Regrets (25:24) Elon Musk’s Takeover of Twitter (35:37) Maintaining Motivation in a Big Project (47:14) The Struggle to Choose a Partner (53:00) How to Deal with Criticism (1:01:55) Where to Find Tim Extra Stuff: Read Tim's blog here - https://waitbutwhy.com/  Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello everybody, welcome back to the show. My guest today is Tim Urban, he's one of the internet's

0:05.9

most popular writers and the founder of Weight But Why. When we look to our past, many of us believe

0:11.5

that we could have behaved differently, perhaps that we should have behaved differently. Yet when we

0:16.3

look to the future, we believe that our path is locked in and genuine change is difficult.

0:21.2

This couldn't be more backward, and Tim explains it in a number of obvious face palm-inducing ways

0:26.7

today. Expect to learn what Tim thinks about Elon's take over of Twitter. Why leisure time when

0:32.7

you're not supposed to be having leisure time is a curse. Why you should absolutely not marry

0:37.4

the wrong person. Tim's best advice for dealing with procrastination, how he cubs with criticism

0:42.7

from strangers and peers, how to avoid dwelling on decisions that you didn't make, and much more.

0:50.3

Tim is an absolute legend and he's got a book that's coming out in a few months, so he should

0:55.2

be back on to that. If you're not familiar with his writing, I highly, highly recommend you go and

1:00.2

check out Weight But Why. It's super accessible, really funny. There's tons of cute little illustrations

1:04.9

that really drive the point home. The guy is a genuine, the original thinker, very, very glad

1:10.4

to have had him on today. Also, over the next month, I've got the most intense schedule of

1:16.4

huge name guests that I think I've ever had on the show. So, if you want to make sure that you

1:20.8

don't miss those episodes when they go up, go and press subscribe. It supports the show,

1:24.3

and it makes me happy, and it ensures that you don't miss these episodes when they go up.

1:29.6

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