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Earn Your Happy

How to Take Back Control of Your Life (and Create the Exact Reality You Want)

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2026

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

Are you waiting for the right people, opportunities, or support to finally show up? In this episode, I’m calling out one of the biggest patterns that keeps people stuck: living in victim mode and waiting for life to happen to them instead of stepping up to create it. I share how I used to feel frustrated with my reality, relationships, and environment until I realized I was the one responsible for changing it. Get ready to learn how to shift the energy in any room, ask better questions, and start creating the conversations and connections you actually want. Check out our Sponsors: Granola - Granola is an AI-powered notepad built for the way real people actually meet. Get three months free at http://granola.ai/earn. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Rella - Rella is a project management platform built specifically for social media managers and teams. Go to http://getrella.com and use code EARN for 10% off your first three months or annual plan. HIGHLIGHTS How to instantly upgrade your stagnant conversations and relationships. Why you should create your own mastermind (even for free). Why nothing changes until YOU change your actions. Ways to shift the energy in any room instantly. How to build a powerful network from scratch. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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0:00.0

This podcast is sponsored by Granola. Granola is an AI powered notebook built for the way real people

0:06.9

actually meet. You can try it totally free for three months. Just head to granola.aI forward slash earn.

0:13.0

Shopify. Try the e-commerce platform I trust for Glosi. Sign up for your $1 per month trial period

0:18.0

at Shopify.com forward slash happy. Indeed, need to hire. This is a job

0:22.8

for Indeed sponsored jobs. Just go to Indeed.com slash podcast right now and support our show by saying

0:28.7

you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Rella, go to getrella.com and start your 14-day free trial.

0:35.8

Use code earn for 10% off.

0:37.8

Your first three months and see why social media teams are ditching the tool chaos.

0:42.7

I will make getting uncomfortable my comfort zone because I will know that if I'm not

0:48.5

uncomfortable every day when my head hits the pillow, then I have a night of discomfort

0:53.3

and tossing and turning, knowing that I

0:55.7

am not doing the thing that God gifted me and the reason why I'm here and that people are waiting

1:00.9

for me to step into this big vision. If you don't change today, your next year is not going to

1:07.6

look the same. It's going to look worse because if we're not making progress,

1:11.6

we digress.

1:18.4

Hey, everyone. Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy podcast. It's time for another quickie because

1:22.1

there's always time to fit in inspiration. I have been thinking so much about creating the life that you wish existed.

1:31.0

And I'm thinking back to all of the times where I would look at my reality and be super

1:38.8

annoyed. I would wish that my life looked completely different, that I had a different set of friends,

1:46.8

that I was supported in a different way, that my husband would show up in a different way,

1:50.9

that my family would be different.

1:52.8

And I was in complete victim mode.

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