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Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society

How to Survive as a Medieval Single Woman

Betwixt The Sheets: The History of Sex, Scandal & Society

History Hit

History, Education, Scandal, Sex, Society

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 6 January 2026

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Being single in 2026 is a major disadvantage, so what was it like as a single woman in the Medieval period?!


Joining Kate today is the always-fantastic Eleanor Janega, author and co-host of our sister podcast, Gone Medieval.


How common was it to be single in this period? What kind of life could you hope to have? And why would both Kate and Eleanor have been looked at suspiciously in the medieval period?


This podcast was edited by Nick Thomson and produced by Stuart Beckwith. The senior producer was Freddy Chick.


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0:00.0

Hello, my lovely betwixters. It's me, Kate Lister. You are you. I am me and this is betwixtor sheets.

0:06.2

Welcome back. But I think you know what's coming by now, don't you? Don't you? I certainly do.

0:11.7

But for any newbies that may have wandered in, I do have to tell you this is an adult podcast book by adults to other adults about adulty things in an adulty way, covering a range of adults subjects and you should be in adult too.

0:22.5

We call that the fair do's warning.

0:23.9

Right, you have been forewarned.

0:26.1

Let's crack on.

0:27.1

You might be wondering, why is Kate out for a walk in the medieval city of York? Well, that is a good question,

0:37.1

especially on a freezing January morning. Well, I'm out here doing some very important research

0:38.8

on the lives of single women so that you can stay all warm and snugly inside. You are welcome

0:44.5

betwixters. But if you were expecting sex in the city the medieval years, you might be a

0:50.2

tad disappointed. But there are still some amazingly scandalous stories to explore nonetheless,

0:55.5

especially at a time which to be visible as a single woman in society was a brave move,

1:00.7

which left you vulnerable to all sorts of wild accusations.

1:06.6

Oh, I'm so glad that we don't do that anymore.

1:13.2

But how did they do it?

1:16.2

Well, I am ready to find out if you are.

1:18.6

Music I'm I'm I'm Hello and welcome back to Betwixt the Sheets, the history of sex scandal and society with me, Kate Lister.

1:54.6

Take it from someone who knows the single tax is all too flipping real.

2:00.2

And that's me saying this in 2026,

2:02.8

so spare a thought for the medieval women who chose the single life. Granted, the idea of choice is not the same then as it is now. I mean, some chose it. Not always their choice,

2:07.9

but someone chose it. Some had singleness thrust upon them. I mean, some may have been widowed.

2:13.3

But what kind of a life could you expect if you decided that matrimony just wasn't for you in the medieval period?

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