How do I stop thinking about my ex

since it will take many months

to regain financial and physical fitness?

Well, it typically takes most people

after a long-term relationship ends.

It's something that's intense emotionally

about a year and a half to get over it

to where the emotional charge is gone.

And so the time's got to pass and nothing is better

for your attitude than living your life doing fun things with whether it's at work or in your

social life if you're having fun you're gonna be smiling and

you meet a girl that just takes your breath away and it's hotter than your ex

it's like your attitude will completely change in an instant and you'll forget about her and

so you want to be open to it because as a man you you always want to focus on your outcome. Your mission, your purpose in life. And if you want to have a family, a girlfriend, whatever happens to be, you got to focus on that. And if somebody doesn't want you anymore, you never try to keep somebody who doesn't want to keep you. And so you've got to find somebody who's excited to be with you, who when you ask her out

on a date, she's like, yeah, I'd love to go out with you. That'd be a blast. I was hoping you would ask me out. That's what you want to hear. You know, it's just like, eh, well, you want somebody's excited to be with you that would jump fences to be with you, not somebody's like,

well, I don't know, maybe

I'll think about it.

You're kind of nice. You're a nice guy.

I just think you as a friend. I'm just going to chime in right here.

Chime in. First of all, year and a half is way too long to be wasting on somebody that you need to get over with so you need to nip that shit in the butt quickly

there is no reason to be wasting a year and a half you need to take some sage from your leftover turkey at Thanksgiving wrap it up in turkey stirring and go ahead and light that fire and go through

all the pants, all the shoes, all the shirts, everything, and just say, Jesus, take the

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