Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

You know obviously I know I married an introvert.

Chris is the definition of peace.

Like when you talk about somebody that is deeply spiritual grounded introverted person who really connects

with people one-on-one that's my husband and so the thing that I'm really trying to figure out

in this next chapter of our marriage,

because I feel like in many ways

we are in the beginning of a second marriage

because we have done so much work on ourselves

and our kids are now grown up and there's this opportunity after 28 years to

really look at each other with fresh eyes, right?

It's so beautiful.

Huge.

There's two things that I want to share that have really helped me.

One is, instead of focusing on the things that I don't like about Chris, right?

And there are plenty of things he does not like about me.

One of the things that I've done is to say,

describe two moments where you just felt that like oh my God this is my person and so there are two moments and there's a great exercise to do, like just think, what are those two moments that really encapsulate like just that flood of peace and love and safety and connection and one of them for me

with Chris is this. We had just met and we were meeting to go out to dinner after

work in New York City.

And I was standing in front of that flat iron building on, you know, 23rd.

I love it.

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