How To Stop People Pleasing
Call Her Daddy
Alex Cooper
4.4 • 166.3K Ratings
🗓️ 21 December 2025
⏱️ 48 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, Daddy Gang. Welcome back to another Sunday session with your father. I am so excited for this |
| 0:09.1 | episode today because I have finally finished reading the book that I have been talking about, |
| 0:15.0 | the courage to be disliked. And I have so many thoughts that I am ready to dig into with you guys. So first of all, |
| 0:24.4 | how did I even find this book? One night at 2 a.m. my brain was doing what a lot of brains do, |
| 0:32.5 | which is, of course, during the day, I'm just going about my life. And then all of a sudden, |
| 0:35.4 | I lay down and I hit the pillow and I'm like, oh my God, what is my career goals? And what am I doing with my life? And am I being a good daughter and sister and wife and all the, and I'm like, oh my God. And so then I was like, I need a book that's going to put me to bed. So I thought that this book, because it's like a very, very like intellectually stimulating book would hopefully be like more educational and let me go to bed. |
| 0:56.1 | I ended up reading seven chapters. a very, very, like, intellectually stimulating book would hopefully be like more educational and |
| 0:55.1 | let me go to bed. I ended up reading seven chapters and I could not put this book down and then it got |
| 1:00.7 | to 5 a.m. and Matt woke up and he was like, what are you still doing up? I'm like, baby, I've never |
| 1:05.2 | gone to bed because I became obsessed. When I went into this book thinking, oh, it'll be fun. I'll learn like the |
| 1:13.5 | courage to be disliked and social media and this will help me. And it's so much deeper than that. |
| 1:18.3 | I thought, what if I just start highlighting and I start taking notes on the book and then I can |
| 1:23.7 | distill it down to you guys because, you know, we're all busy and maybe you guys don't |
| 1:28.0 | have time to read this book, but I'm going to make you feel like you did. So let's get into it. |
| 1:34.1 | So when I think about being disliked, it's definitely a concept I feel like a lot of us avoid |
| 1:40.9 | engaging with. I mean, just on its surface, it's obviously painful to think about |
| 1:45.4 | the people who don't like you, right? But at the same time, I think our society has become more |
| 1:50.9 | and more vocal about when we dislike something. And we sort of live in this echo chamber |
| 1:57.7 | of feedback right now, whether it's online reviews or hate comments or even |
| 2:03.4 | just posting an Instagram story. We've all kind of become vulnerable to external critiques. |
| 2:09.7 | And if you think about it, like how many times have each and every one of us posted in |
| 2:14.8 | Instagram overthought it, checked how many likes it has or not enough |
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