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Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

How to Stop People Pleasing During the Holidays

Unsolicited Advice with Ashley and Taryne

Ashley Nichole & Taryne Renee and Studio71

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

The holidays tend to bring out the best and the most challenging parts of family dynamics. In today's episode, we're talking about how to stop people pleasing during the holidays, especially when you're splitting time between families, navigating tough conversations, and dealing with relatives who forget their filters. Follow the Podcast on Insta: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceInsta⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow the Podcast on TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdviceTikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Ashley: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/ashnichole/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Taryne: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/tarynerenee/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Become a premium subscriber today at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/UAPodcastSupercast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To watch our podcast on YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/UAPodcastYouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdvicePodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bit.ly/UnsolicitedAdvicePodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To send us your questions/stories, email us at: AdviceUnsolicitedPod@gmail.com To check out our UA MERCH: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/unsolicitedadvicemerchandise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:54.0

Hey, Ash.

0:56.1

What was that?

0:57.6

I was going to like, sometimes like I'll go like I'm going to say something.

1:02.1

And when you're extra like hyper and in like a funny mood.

1:07.2

Not you yawning in the first sentence I speak of the episode. Sorry. sorry. I'm boring already. From the top. Well, I'm waiting for you to get there. Ashley, it's 28 seconds. Zing! Are we fighting? Continue. I'm so sorry. My mom loves when we argue, by the way, on the podcast. She's like, why are you guys fighting so much? I was like, mom. I'm sorry, I love language. It's fun. Anyways, wow, never mind. I mean. What were you going to say, though? I was just saying, like, sometimes when you're extra hyper, I'll, like, go to say something and then you, like, jump in with what you think I'm going to say and you get all like playful.

1:46.5

So that's what you're trying to see what I was going to say.

1:48.9

But what I've learned from this is one, you're sassy today.

1:53.1

Two, we're not, we're not in.

1:56.8

You're more mellow ash today.

1:58.3

I am.

1:59.2

I, yeah.

2:01.1

I think I'm just tired.

2:02.8

I feel that dude.

2:03.8

Same.

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