How to Stop Fighting Intrusive or Negative Thoughts-Passengers on a Bus Exercise from ACT
Therapy in a Nutshell
Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam
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🗓️ 19 May 2025
⏱️ 15 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode of the Therapy in a Nutshell podcast. I'm Emma McAdam and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist. |
| 0:09.1 | And this podcast is all about taking the life-changing, but usually kind of complicated topics of therapy and boiling them down into simple, easy-to-understand concepts that you can use in your daily life. |
| 0:21.7 | If you find today's episode is helpful to you, please pass it on to someone else who could benefit from it as well. |
| 0:25.9 | Each podcast episode comes from a corresponding video you can find on the Therapy in a Nutshell |
| 0:30.3 | YouTube channel. Also, these podcasts are educational and don't replace the advice or direction |
| 0:35.1 | you may be receiving from a therapist or other health professionals. |
| 0:38.3 | Now please, enjoy the episode. |
| 0:40.3 | Have you ever felt like your thoughts are running the show? |
| 0:43.3 | Like, no matter how hard you try to push them away, they keep coming back louder than ever. |
| 0:49.3 | Maybe you deal with intrusive thoughts that feel terrifying, or you constantly overthink every decision. Or you beat yourself up with negative thoughts that tell you you're a waste of space. |
| 0:57.8 | These thoughts can feel really overwhelming and can seem to stop you from moving forward in your |
| 1:02.0 | life or from being happy or doing your work or building relationships. |
| 1:05.6 | So if that sounds like you, then let me teach you an exercise that can help you break free |
| 1:09.9 | from struggling with intrusive |
| 1:11.5 | thoughts or overthinking. It's called the Passengers on the Bus metaphor from acceptance |
| 1:16.5 | and commitment therapy. This metaphor was developed by Stephen Hayes, the founder of act, |
| 1:20.6 | and it offers a simple but powerful shift. You are not your thoughts, you are the driver of your life. |
| 1:26.6 | So imagine you're a bus. You are not your thoughts. You are the driver of your life. |
| 1:32.3 | So imagine you're a bus driver. Everybody hold on! |
| 1:37.3 | This bus represents your life and you get to decide where to go. Your job is to steer the bus toward your values. |
| 1:49.0 | These are things like love, connection, growth, or purpose. But here's the catch. Just like your mind, your bus isn't empty. It's packed with passengers. And these passengers are your thoughts. They're your emotions and |
| 2:03.2 | they're your memories. Sometimes passengers get on and sometimes passengers get off. Right. |
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