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Therapy in a Nutshell

How to Stop Fighting Intrusive or Negative Thoughts-Passengers on a Bus Exercise from ACT

Therapy in a Nutshell

Therapy in a Nutshell -Emma McAdam

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness:mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.8658 Ratings

🗓️ 19 May 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Learn to Regulate your Emotions: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Intrusive Thoughts, Overthinking, ACT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Passengers on the Bus, Negative Thoughts Have you ever felt like your negative thoughts are running the show? Like no matter how hard you try to push them away, they keep coming back, louder than ever? Maybe you deal with intrusive thoughts that feel terrifying, or you constantly overthink every decision. These thoughts can feel really overwhelming and they can seem to stop you from moving forward in life, from being happy, doing your work, or building relationships. If that sounds like you, then let me teach you an exercise that can help you break free from struggling with intrusive thoughts or overthinking. It’s called the Passengers on the Bus metaphor from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). This metaphor was developed by Dr. Steven Hayes, the founder of ACT, and it offers a simple but powerful shift: You are not your thoughts—you are the driver of your life. Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell Learn more in one of my in-depth mental health courses: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com Support my mission on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therapyinanutshell Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.therapyinanutshell.com Check out my favorite self-help books: https://kit.co/TherapyinaNutshell/best-self-help-books  Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger Institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC

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0:00.0

Welcome back to another episode of the Therapy in a Nutshell podcast. I'm Emma McAdam and I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist.

0:09.1

And this podcast is all about taking the life-changing, but usually kind of complicated topics of therapy and boiling them down into simple, easy-to-understand concepts that you can use in your daily life.

0:21.7

If you find today's episode is helpful to you, please pass it on to someone else who could benefit from it as well.

0:25.9

Each podcast episode comes from a corresponding video you can find on the Therapy in a Nutshell

0:30.3

YouTube channel. Also, these podcasts are educational and don't replace the advice or direction

0:35.1

you may be receiving from a therapist or other health professionals.

0:38.3

Now please, enjoy the episode.

0:40.3

Have you ever felt like your thoughts are running the show?

0:43.3

Like, no matter how hard you try to push them away, they keep coming back louder than ever.

0:49.3

Maybe you deal with intrusive thoughts that feel terrifying, or you constantly overthink every decision. Or you beat yourself up with negative thoughts that tell you you're a waste of space.

0:57.8

These thoughts can feel really overwhelming and can seem to stop you from moving forward in your

1:02.0

life or from being happy or doing your work or building relationships.

1:05.6

So if that sounds like you, then let me teach you an exercise that can help you break free

1:09.9

from struggling with intrusive

1:11.5

thoughts or overthinking. It's called the Passengers on the Bus metaphor from acceptance

1:16.5

and commitment therapy. This metaphor was developed by Stephen Hayes, the founder of act,

1:20.6

and it offers a simple but powerful shift. You are not your thoughts, you are the driver of your life.

1:26.6

So imagine you're a bus. You are not your thoughts. You are the driver of your life.

1:32.3

So imagine you're a bus driver. Everybody hold on!

1:37.3

This bus represents your life and you get to decide where to go. Your job is to steer the bus toward your values.

1:49.0

These are things like love, connection, growth, or purpose. But here's the catch. Just like your mind, your bus isn't empty. It's packed with passengers. And these passengers are your thoughts. They're your emotions and

2:03.2

they're your memories. Sometimes passengers get on and sometimes passengers get off. Right.

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