How To Stop Dating Fuckboys ft. Anna Kai

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 16 February 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Anna Kai, the mastermind who decided to mix Get Ready With Me videos with her own dating stories. Anna and I discuss meeting her husband on Bumble, if it’s possible for your standards to be too high, the dating lessons she learned the hard way, how she stopped dating fuckboys and found the one, her advice for getting out of your head when dating, not having sex before exclusivity, why she doesn’t think women should offer to pay on dates, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss women having a higher sex drive than men.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.4	Hey guys, welcome back to Mimera Rakhmi. I am so excited for this bonus episode today.
0:13.2	It certainly is a bonus indeed because it is a delight to have been able to speak to Anna.
0:21.1	Kai, she is unbelievable. I found her, well, you'll hear all about her before we get into Anna.
0:30.0	I know we just spoke on Sunday, but I wanted to do a little bit of an intro to this episode,
0:36.0	a solo about sex drive because this came up on our episode with Sophia and I was like,
0:44.9	women have higher sex drives than men. Like, what do you think about this? And she was like,
0:50.0	I don't know, like, if I agree, but you guys reached out to me like a ton and you were like,
0:58.9	okay, yeah, I do have a higher sex drive than my male partner. Can you please talk about this?
1:05.9	I could not agree more. And I'm going to talk about it. And it's so interesting because you first
1:11.6	hear this and you're like, that's just not true because you're thinking of like all the guys who,
1:16.9	you know, we just think guys are like these horny, whatever. And maybe in their early 20s and
1:24.8	their teens like guys are, but I really do think that as you get older and in your 30s especially,
1:32.4	things change a little bit. And there are reasons for that, right? It's not just like coming out of my
1:38.0	ass. I read articles and I have support. So one of the reasons is your hormone levels, like our
1:45.2	hormone levels as women are changing all the time. So that could be just as simple as like before
1:52.3	ovulation during ovulation, when we have our periods, etc. Right? It could be from going off
1:58.9	the pill, going up birth control, which we're going to do a whole episode dedicated to. And also,
2:05.2	like let's say our male partner doesn't work out and we work out the more you exercise the higher your
2:15.2	sex drive is. So if you are a woman who exercises more than your male partner, that is a reason
2:23.2	that your sex drive could be higher. Another reason is that us as women, like obviously it's important
2:33.7	to especially in 2023, right? To have a great career and to be successful, but
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