How to Stop Comparing Yourself So You Can Be at Peace w/ Matthew Hussey
Own Your Future with Dean Graziosi
Dean Graziosi
4.8 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 14 May 2023
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
“When I’m honest with myself about how pathetic I am in certain areas, that’s really helpful”
That might sound harsh but it’s true. The moment you can be obsessively HONEST with yourself, that's the moment everything changes. My guest this week on the Own YOUR Future Podcast understands this on a deep level.
Matthew Hussey’s journey to becoming the leading DATING EXPERT and confidence coach for women started when he was 11 years old! He read Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and it set him on a path at an early age. He realized that the things you believe about yourself or think you’re “stuck” with like anxiety, shyness, anger, being “bad” at relationships, etc – can actually be changed.
It’s those FOUNDATIONAL teachings that ultimately led to him becoming a New York Times bestselling author, international speaker, and relationship expert. Matthew has the number one dating advice channel in the world. His YouTube videos have been viewed more than 470 million times and his content reaches over 10 million followers each week! But you’ll hear Matthew share things he’s rarely ever been asked or shared publicly – not even on his own channel! Plus we cover:
💛Why you’ll never be able to ENJOY your success if you don’t do the inner work 💛How to have more moments of PEACE 💛Why it’s ok to SETTLE 💛How to be more CONFIDENT 💛What leaves men desperately UNHAPPY and how to fix it
You’re going to want to save this one to your favorites to refer back to!
Matthew is the real deal when it comes to helping you become better in your relationships and after helping so many women become more confident and find love, he’s learned a few things that we can all benefit from.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | We all hear the aphorisms, like don't compare yourself to people, |
| 0:03.7 | comparison is the thief of joy. |
| 0:05.4 | A brain doesn't change with platitudes. |
| 0:07.4 | We have to figure out what's a truth about why I shouldn't compare myself |
| 0:12.7 | that makes, that's real to me, that connects me to that idea. |
| 0:17.2 | Winston Churchill said, men occasionally stumble over the truth, |
| 0:22.3 | but most pick themselves up and carry on as if nothing happened. |
| 0:26.2 | Own your future, because if you don't, someone else will. |
| 0:31.7 | Welcome back to the Own Your Future podcast. |
| 0:34.6 | Hey, it's Dean Graziosi and I'm super excited to have this guest on today. |
| 0:38.9 | He's someone that I haven't known for 20 years, not 10, not 5, not even 2. |
| 0:43.4 | But I met him about six months ago at a mastermind with a bunch of friends |
| 0:46.8 | and he just stood out. |
| 0:48.3 | Just a great guy who's making an incredible impact in the world. |
| 0:51.5 | He's a New York Times best-selling author, international speaker. |
| 0:55.5 | He is ready for this. |
| 0:56.9 | The number one dating advice or he has, the number one dating advice channel |
| 1:01.9 | in the world, his YouTube has had over 470 million views, |
| 1:07.9 | which is absolutely insane. |
| 1:09.8 | And I could go on and on with all his credentials. |
| 1:12.2 | But I'll say, you know when you just meet someone and you know |
| 1:15.2 | they got a heart to serve, simultaneously they're a badass. |
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