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The Upgrade by Lifehacker

How to Stop Caring What People Think, With Mark Manson

The Upgrade by Lifehacker

Lifehacker

Tech News, News, How To, Education, Self-improvement

4.6688 Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2019

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Do you ever find yourself spending way too much time worrying about what people think of you? Are you ready to let those needless concerns go to focus on other, more important things? This week on The Upgrade, we’re working through our issues with Mark Manson, author of “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck,” as well as revisiting our interview with writer Samantha Irby from our 2017 “How to Not Give a Shit” episode.

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That's audible.com slash Wondery UK. Hello and welcome to The Upgrade, the podcast from the team at LifeHacker, where we help you improve your life one week at a time.

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I'm Melissa Kirsch, editor-in-chief of LifeHacker.

1:12.0

And I'm Alice Bradley, LifeHacker's deputy editor.

1:14.9

And today we're talking about how to care less what other people think.

1:19.2

Sometimes we're so obsessed with how we come off,

1:21.8

whether other people approve of our actions and decisions or how we look or how much we make.

1:27.2

It can be absolutely paralyzing.

1:29.0

Don't you think? Totally. Hey, Alice. Yes, Melissa. Do you think you've achieved a healthy balance as

1:33.6

far as caring what other people think? I think I'm getting better as I get older. Yeah.

1:37.1

I definitely, you know, you spend most of, I think as most people do, I spend most of my teens worrying

1:41.4

way too much. And then in my 20s and 30s, just gradually

1:44.3

less and less realizing that most people are more worried about how they come off and they are

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