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The New Man

How to Stop Bitching and Create What You Want – Shana James, MA

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Self-improvement, Education, Business, Health & Fitness, Entrepreneurship

4.6644 Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2021

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Does your partner give you a hard time because you want more sex? Do you blame your work or family for getting in the way of what has you feel alive? And what do power and pleasure have to do with us becoming grumpy old men? Shana James has coached many guys over the years through the intersection between owning our power and having the experiences we most want. She’s got a new book called Power and Pleasure: A Man’s Guide to Becoming a More Confident and Satisfied Lover and Leader. Today we talk about how to shift our mindset from frustration into greater aliveness and fun. In this interview: What is pleasure? Is power about dominance? Being responsible vs having fun “What do I actually enjoy?” Why all of us have a bit of “nice guy syndrome” Seeing frustration as information Plus: Feeling guilty about wanting more pleasure What’s your role in your level of unhappiness? Waiting for someone to tell you what to do Are you a bad husband or father if you want time for yourself? Are you afraid to bring what you want to your partner for fear it’ll cause a problem? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/05/shana-james-power-pleasure You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://thenewmanpodcast.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.1

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.8

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book. Information on how

0:44.6

to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older version of the book and you

0:49.5

don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact form at triplinear.com, and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start

1:10.0

the show.

1:26.4

You are listening to The New Man, Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp. Your host is Men's coach Triplineer.

1:32.3

Does your partner give you a hard time because you want more sex?

1:36.3

Do you blame your work or family for getting in the way of what has you feel alive?

1:42.3

And what do power and pleasure have to do with us becoming grumpy old

1:46.9

men? Shana James has coached many guys over the years through that intersection between

1:51.3

owning our power and having the experiences we most want. She's got a new book called Power and

1:57.4

Pleasure, a man's guide to becoming a more confident and satisfied lover and leader.

2:02.6

And today, we talk about how to shift our mindset from frustration into greater aliveness and fun.

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