How To Stop Being Fearful I Will Mess My Relationship Up

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2023

⏱️ 21 minutes

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How to stop being fearful that you will mess your relationship up when things are going really well.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's
0:05.4	newsletter is going to be how to stop being fearful.
0:08.6	I will mess my relationship up.
0:11.7	Well, I got an email.
0:12.5	This is from a young Whipasnappa.
0:14.9	He's 20 years old, relatively new to my work and his new girlfriend, he's been dating for
0:20.5	about four months.
0:22.7	Everything's going really well, but part of his problem is he's always obsessing about
0:27.4	and worrying about the future. So he's living in the future instead of the present because
0:32.2	the present is the only moment that exists. And so if you're living in the future, or living in the past, for that matter,
0:38.9	what a lot of people tend to do, you can't be present in the moment. In other words, you want
0:45.7	reality to be other than it is. So he's focused on what may or may not happen in the future
0:51.2	and not taking care of what he needs to take care of in the moment.
0:56.8	And so, because there's a lot of us, if we grew up in an environment where it wasn't very healthy,
1:01.5	maybe it was toxic, you watch your parents argue and have a loveless, sexless marriage,
1:07.5	you're going to be emotionally conditioned to expect that that is normal.
1:11.8	And so therefore, when you get into a good relationship with somebody that's easy going,
1:15.2	easy to get along with, you communicate, well, it's not going to feel normal to you.
1:19.9	And oftentimes people that don't know any better, sabotage it and do things to mess the relationship
1:25.7	up.
1:27.8	So this particular guy, it's a real short email, but he's just, he's afraid that he's
1:34.4	going to lose her.
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