Good morning, gorgeous. How are you doing today? Whether you're watching this in the morning,

afternoon, or evening, thank you for being here. Welcome to my channel. I'm Dr. Michelle Dap,

and I'm so happy that you're here today as we talk about the controlling wife. You, my love love being a controlling wife, a controlling woman in your relationship.

Now, you may say, ah, ah, uh, uh, uh, that's not me. I'm not controlling. I don't know who you're

talking about you're not talking about me. And I may not be talking about you because truly

people who are very controlling don't oftentimes

even know that they are. But you may have heard from time to time that you are a controlling

person or maybe you just feel like you have to control everything. But either way, when it

comes to relationships, no one should be controlling.

Your husband chose to be with you, chose to give up his life to combine his life with yours.

And so with that choice, he freed himself to be with you, not to be captured by you and manipulated and bent and

turned and flipped around and used by you for your wishes.

But I want you to know that this video is not to condemn you.

You are not a bad person and even if you are very controlling, that doesn't mean that

you're a bad wife.

It just means that there are some areas that we need to talk about, areas in which you need

to heal in.

Because when you're controlling, you are ruining your own marriage.

And you're also not living authentically.

You're not able to see who your husband really is because you're manipulating so many things about the

relationship. And the truth is, most of us do have some controlling tendencies. It's part of

human nature to some degree. But when you're at the point where you are out of control, where

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