This is a question from Daniel, who's 28 years old. He says, literally two days ago my girlfriend broke up with me because she claims I'm financially irresponsible. In my eyes, I'm investing in a career that I want. I work a steady job as a freelance videographer and make anywhere from 2K to 5K a month depending on the clients and workload. My success is definitely coming in a lot slower than I'd like, or better yet, she would like. But I'm determined, and I communicated that I don't plan to stop. Also, for more context, this is my second time dumping money on a passion project this year. We're not even talking about last year, L.O.L. Yeah, I mean, look, the answer is both of you can be right. In this scenario, like, there doesn't have to be someone who's wrong or right.

Like, she's allowed to make a subjective opinion if she thinks your strategies on how you handle your money,

don't work for her for the kind of financial partner she's looking for in her life.

She's allowed, you know, and long term she may regret this decision or it might be the best

decision that ever happened.

You're also allowed to not conform and get a regular job or do something.

You are not in a place where you have to make a certain amount of money or do a certain thing to

appease a partner either. There are unbelievable amounts of women in the world that will love you

for what you do, for how you do it financial. What is financial success? It's different to everyone.

Is $100,000 a year enough to make, you know, for many women and men? It is? For many women and men, it is.

For many women and men, it's not.

I don't judge what people are looking for.

They're going to have to live with that.

If a woman is only looking to marry a man

who makes a million dollars a year

and she breaks up with a couple

guys along the way that treated her better at 62, she may regret that. Maybe she doesn't. She's

allowed. Same for men. Same for men that matter. I mean, do you know, we always love to say women are

gold diggers. You know many men are gold diggers? There's a lot of men who are trying to marry rich

girls or girls that have rich dads or like There's a lot of men who are trying to marry rich girls

or girls that have rich dads.

There's a lot of shit going on in the world.

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