What is up, guys? Welcome back to the pod. Happy Friday. Hope everyone is having a fabulous December, a fabulous

Hober Nation. Hope everyone has fun holiday parties to go to this weekend. So a couple weeks ago,

I got a really sweet AMA on Instagram from a man, and it sparked an idea for this podcast episode in my head. He said, I don't think I'm that good looking or I'm paraphrasing, but he said, I don't think I'm that good looking. I'm kind of mid. What are some things that I can do to stand out to women? And I love this. Okay. I love like, listen, I don't really want to go into all the morality of like, oh, he's not good looking, whatever, but I whatever. But I love the proactiveness of saying like, what can I do to stand out for women? So I wanted to do an episode for the guys. We've done one of these before. But this one is specifically, if you are a man, how you can stand out in dating. Because

here's the thing, and here's the exciting thing if you're a man right now. It is actually so

easy to stand out as a man. I know it feels like maybe women are a different species, and we are,

but actually, we are very simple in what we are looking for and actually in the current climate if you do a few

things it is so easy to stand out like it it really is like it is actually um ripe for the pickin right

now let me let me put it that way also i would be remiss if i didn't say, as a man, I think you should read Scott Galloway's

new book. Notes on being a man. Notes on masculinity. I should probably know the name of the

book before I recommend it. Let me look it up. It's my favorite man's book. I can't remember

exactly the name. But yeah, let's see. Notes on

being a man. I really think you guys should read it if you are a guy out there. I'm actually just starting to read it.

I feel like I'll probably know most of this because I follow Scott Galloway really closely. But he talks a lot about masculinity and kind of breaks it down on what it means to

actually be a man and, and like goes deeper than I'm going to go in this episode. In this episode,

I'm hoping to provide a guide for men who are dating, maybe you're in your 20s or your 30s,

and you're like, okay, like, I am not a billionaire and I am not, you know, freaking Brad Pitt, which, look, none of us are, right?

We're all just like normal people here. So what can you do to make yourself stand out?

Again, I just want to state like the unfair thing is women don't actually need a guy who is super hot.

Like that is the, I'm just going to state facts. Do we joke around about, oh, I want a guy who's six, four and looks like, you know, Michael B. Jordan. Yes, of course we joke around about that. But at the end of the day, if you are a guy who has a good personality and you're kind and you're masculine in the right ways, you're in, baby,

you're in.

So I think that you should all find this very exciting because it's actually easier than you

think.

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