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Women of Impact

How To Spot & Stop Manipulation & Gaslighting | Dr. Mariel Buque PT 2

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2023

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

Pause… Did you catch part of one of my conversation with Dr. Mariel Buque? By the end of today’s episode you’ll know exactly how to spot the gaslighting and manipulation tricks being used against you. When it comes to love and relationships, being love-bombed only to be manipulated and gaslighted by your partner is a trap even professional psychologist have found themselves in. When you don’t have words to put to the experience and you’re not even sure what is happening at the time it’s confusing and scary.  I want you to have the knowledge and the tools you need to spot the bullsh*t early and act accordingly knowing your value and your self-worth.  My guest today, Dr. Mariel Buque and all of her awesomeness, was named to Lewis Howes’ School of Greatness Top 100 List of the Greatest People of 2022 Doing Good. She’s been featured on Good Morning America, The Today Show and so much more. In part one, Mariel exposed a side of love-bombing you never hear spoken of that way. In this part of our conversation Mariel goes layers deepers on the 7 stages of manipulations:  *Breaking the default “sorry” mode we’ve all fallen into *Ways to cut off that “Hoovering” ex that’s always lurking *A brand new way to think through the best version of you being manifested Ladies! We’re done with feeling like we’re crazy and we’re flipping the damn tables with this episode.  Check out Dr. Mariel’s book, Break The Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma: https://www.amazon.com/Break-Cycle-Healing-Intergenerational-Trauma/dp/0593472497  Follow Dr. Mariel Buque: Website: https://www.drmarielbuque.com/  Podcast: https://breakthecyclewithdrmariel.buzzsprout.com/  Twitter:: https://twitter.com/drmarielbuque  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.marielbuque/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKa79peiy6CJf2RDI13YNeQ  SPONSORS: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Try Audible FREE for 30 days! Just visit https://adbl.co/3TLkgrD or text woi to 500-500. Go to https://bit.ly/ZocDocLisa and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI. That’s https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI to post your job for free. Terms and conditions apply. Give therapy a try, with BetterHelp! Visit https://bit.ly/BetterhelpWomen today to get 10% off your first month.  ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What up my homies? Okay, if you missed part one of today's episode with Dr. Mario

0:55.5

Bucke, pause right now, go over and listen because this is a seven-part episode, guys, where she breaks

1:01.0

down all the manipulation tactics that someone in your life may be using against you, that you

1:06.9

don't actually realize. So go check out the first episode with all the first tips.

1:16.8

And today, we actually finish them and go even deeper. Now, Dr. Mariel Bouquet, just in case you missed it, is a respected Afro-Latino psychologist who's made appearances on Good Morning America

1:21.8

and the Today Show, just to name a few. And she's joining me with this incredible seven-stage cycle

1:26.9

of manipulation. And today,

1:28.8

in the second part of our conversation, Dr. Mario helps us break out of the defaults of saying

1:33.5

sorry to everything. She causes the stage of submission and we're actually calling it the end

1:39.4

of the good girls they think they can control. Tip. All if this episode have brought you value i am begging

1:46.4

you the one thing that i ask in return is to please please do leave a review and then tell your

1:51.8

homies about it for this to actually make global impact i cannot do it alone and i beg of you

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