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How to Solve Math Probs

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Feminism, Gender, Media Analysis, Body Politics, Patriarchy, Intersectionality, Society & Culture, Cultural Commentary, Beauty Standards, Internet Culture, Womens Rights

4.8 β€’ 3.7K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 11 June 2019

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Caroline and Cristen are going to couple's therapy β€” for math β€” with educator and stereotype-disrupter, Vanessa Vakharia. Bad-at-math baggage is easy to pick up, and Vanessa's here to teach C&C and some unladylike callers how to put it down already. All to find out: What happens when you rewrite your can't-do-math story, even if you're not a "numbers person"?

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0:00.0

Any time I'm asked to talk about math, I don't even think I'm exaggerating when I say 95% of the time,

0:09.8

people literally make weird noises, like people are like, oh my, oh my god.

0:14.4

Like, you know, like people have like a visceral reaction and they'll be like, oh my god,

0:19.3

I hated math. Like, you know, do you ever notice that? Like people like, he did math.

0:24.8

No, Vanessa, I have no idea what you're talking about.

0:30.1

Lady

0:31.1

Love us

0:34.3

A lady echo lady echo lady echo lady echo lady echo lady echo lady echo lady echo lady like a lady echo lady like,

0:42.2

I can't laugh.

0:45.6

Hey y'all and welcome to a lady like, the show that finds out what happens when women break the rules.

0:50.8

I'm Caroline. I'm Kristen and that was Vanessa Vacaria, a Toronto-based educator and Caroline,

0:58.0

your new unofficial math therapist.

1:00.0

It feels like very official I would say.

1:02.4

But so we're talking of Vanessa today because Kristen, listen, I'm going to be real like I am carrying around some major math baggage and I'm sick of it.

1:10.7

Like I didn't even realize though like how much I had internalized sort of my younger days, non-math skills, until not that long ago.

1:18.9

Like you and I were recording a podcast in our previous podcast lives and this one sort of like unexpectedly triggering thing happened.

1:27.4

I remember this.

1:29.0

Yeah, so Kristen and I were recording an episode and I kind of randomly threw out there that like, I'm terrible at math and you and I just moved on and didn't think about it anymore.

1:37.0

Well, that's, I can't say that's true for our listeners.

1:39.7

We ended up getting a letter from a listener who was pissed at me that I had said that about my math abilities because she basically accused me of like,

1:48.2

furthering and worsening gender stereotypes around math and dude I was pissed.

1:53.3

I was so pissed because it's like, it's my problem not yours back off.

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