How to Size People Up and Predict Their Behavior | ROBIN DREEKE

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Society & Culture, Business

4.8 • 9.1K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2020

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

The ability to accurately size someone up could spell the difference between life and death, whether you or the other guy gets the promotion, if that prospect purchases from you, or if she decides to date/marry you.

And, I can think of no better person to talk with us about predicting human behavior than Robin Dreeke, who spent more than two decades as a behavior analyst for the FBI. Today, we talk about being wary of trusting your gut, the difference between your gut and intuition, why if you're betrayed by others you may have actually betrayed yourself, manipulation, judgment, how to predict human behavior, and why it matters.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

Packaging human physiology
Developing relationships
Projecting blame
Emotional hijacking
It's all about judging
You can't please everybody
Positive manipulation
Situational awareness
Building muscle memory
When to trust your gut
Non-verbal body language
Detecting deception
Strategizing relationships
Identifying non-tangibles motives
Become a better leader

ROBIN DREEKE

My guest today is Robin Dreeke and he spent more than two decades as a behavior analyst for the FBI. He's dealt with extremely complex situations from handling Russian spies to navigating the internal politics on the Bureau.

He's written three books, It's Not All About Me, The Code of Trust, and his latest, Sizing People Up where he shares a six-step system he developed to predict anyone's behavior based on their words, goals, action, and situation.

This was such a fascinating discussion and one that if the lessons are applied, it will drastically improve every facet of your life.

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0:00.0	The ability to accurately size someone up could spell the difference between life and death,
0:04.8	whether you or that other guy gets the promotion, if that prospect purchases from you,
0:09.4	or if she decides to date or marry you. And I can think of no better person to talk with us
0:14.0	about predicting human behavior than Robin Drake, who spent more than two decades as a behavior
0:20.2	analyst for the FBI. Today we talk about being wary of trusting your gut, the difference between
0:26.7	your gut and intuition. Why, if you're betrayed by others, you may have actually betrayed yourself.
0:32.8	We talk about manipulation and judgment, but ultimately how to predict human behavior and why it
0:38.3	matters to you. Your a man of action, you live life to the fullest, embrace your fears,
0:43.3	and boldly charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time,
0:48.5	every time. You are not easily deterred and defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life,
0:55.7	this is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and
1:01.2	done, you can call yourself a man. Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan Mickler,
1:06.9	and I am the host and the founder of this podcast and the movement to reclaim and restore masculinity.
1:12.4	It is apparent to me and many of you listening that we live in a culture that has
1:18.3	dismissed masculinity, has mocked and ridiculed and deliridled what it means to be a man, and then we
1:24.3	live in a time where men are being feminized by the millions. It is my job to give you the tools
1:31.6	and resources. Within this podcast, the conversations that you need to become a more effective,
1:37.7	strong, and capable father, husband, business owner, community leader in every other role that you
1:44.8	want to fill, that you want to step into, and that you want to be proud and capable of doing so.
1:50.7	We have got, like I said, this podcast where we are interviewing just incredible men. Today,
1:54.6	I have Robin Drake. He is a FBI behavior analyst. We are going to get into that in here just a minute.
2:00.0	We have other men on the podcast like Jocke Willink and David Goggins and Andy Frasilla,
	...

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