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All right, let's talk about limits.

I was talking with a friend of mine recently.

We'll call him Kurt.

It's not his real name,

you know, trying to protect the ego of the innocent and all. Kurt is a very successful guy,

but he kept talking about how he had hit his limit. He kept saying how he achieved his max

in business, in his health, and in his marriage. And he said it with a sense of pride,

which is probably the part that bothered me the most. I almost just let it go, but that is not what good friends do. So I said, you know that's bullshit-talkie, right? I blurted. I know. I could have been more tactful, I'm sure. What's bull-chataki, he asked, with a stunned look on his face. Admittedly, I was

purposely trying to break his head or his mental pattern. This bullshit talk about your limits,

you hitting your max and all, I said. What do you mean? He asked. Kurt, you got to be careful how

you talk. The shitaki that you say to yourself, I said, man.

Look, it sounds like you're doing great in all, which I'm really happy for.

But this isn't your limit, man.

It's not even close.

You're nowhere near your quote-unquote max.

You don't even know what your max is, buddy.

Neither do I.

But I guarantee you, this certainly ain't it.

For you or for me? Now, the perplexed look on his face begged for a rant. So I gave him one.

I said, I absolutely disagree with this idea that you keep promoting that you've ever

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