Coming up on marriage today with Jimmy and Karen.

When Karen and I got married I was verbally abusive and domino.

And I didn't know my wife. I didn't know my wife. I didn't know my wife.

I didn't know my wife, but you know, I had so hurt her through the things that I had said that she was covered with fig leaves.

I mean literally she she wasn't going to tell me about the sense of areas of her life because you know when I got mad I would take advantage of it.

Well I think as a wife you just want to feel like you're part of your husband's world.

And maybe, you know, she just wants you to say, you know, hey, let me just tell you about the day what's going on,

just give the, you know, general things, you know, and just let her know

her know just give the general things you know and just let her know you're just as much a

part of my world as you know as anybody. And the One of the most important things that we understand related to marriage is there are laws. And a lot of times people are fearful of

marriage because they don't understand that there are laws associated with and I'm a

pilot I'm a licensed pilot I got my pilot's license last year My family will not fly with me yet. Let me give

that disclaimer. But there are laws related to aerodynamics and so I'm not afraid

to fly as long as I'm respecting the laws because there are laws

planes don't just fall out of the air is that you know when you're there's a plane that

crashes or something that happens wrong it just didn't happen you know just just by chance. It's something violated the laws of aerodynamics for that to happen.

I say when you don't understand the laws of marriage, it's a really scary thing.

And it was for Karen and me. We got married at 19 years old.

We didn't have any pre-marriage preparation before we got married and so we didn't know.

And honestly I just thought you're either lucky enough to marry the right person or you're

unlucky and you marry the wrong person and honestly I loved Karen I was very

attracted to her I thought I married the wrong person after a few years of

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