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One of the questions you always have to ask and talk about relationships,

do you love my no as much as you love my yes?

Yeah.

I'm Joyce Meyer and I believe that God can heal you everywhere you hurt.

Hello and welcome to enjoying everyday life.

Could you use some help setting boundaries in your life?

Well, we've got the doctor in the house today.

Dr. Henry Cloud joins Joyce, Aaron Clule,

and me to discuss the importance of healthy boundaries and to offer practical help in making

them work for you. So grab a notebook and a Bible and get ready for a great discussion.

So Dr. Cloud wrote the book Boundaries with Dr. John Townsend.

He's a psychologist and author, a leadership consultant, written 45 books, 20 million books sold.

You have a new book out called Why I Believe.

Dr. Cloud is a psychologist if you don't know him, so he's

going to psychoanalyze me here. Yeah, yeah. So we're just very happy to have you, especially here

talking to us about kind of your keystone thing, which is boundaries and how important they are in

all of our lives. So can we set up the need for boundaries?

I have so many things going through my head of the need for boundaries. But what would you

describe as the main reason that boundaries are so vital.

That's like saying you want water, air, or food.

It's hard to boil down to one.

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