How to Self Help Yourself
Unladylike
Unladylike Media
4.8 • 3.7K Ratings
🗓️ 6 August 2019
⏱️ 40 minutes
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Summary
What happens when you live out self-help advice? Cristen and Caroline find out from By the Book co-hosts Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg. The pair has done exactly that with more than 50 self-improvement books, including The Secret, Girl Wash Your Face and The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. It’s all to find out: What is self-help really selling us, and why are women are so drawn to it?
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| 0:00.0 | One of the current, I'm gonna say it, manifestations of self-help is the goop model of self-help. |
| 0:10.4 | Buy more stuff. |
| 0:11.4 | Buy more stuff. |
| 0:12.4 | Buy more stuff. |
| 0:13.4 | Buy this new trend. |
| 0:14.4 | Buy this your body. |
| 0:15.4 | $100 egg in your scooter. |
| 0:16.4 | Your vagina. |
| 0:17.4 | I can't know. |
| 0:18.4 | Yeah. |
| 0:19.4 | Everything is free. |
| 0:20.4 | That one's your your depression. |
| 0:21.4 | Lady, let's go. |
| 0:28.4 | Lady, let's go. |
| 0:37.4 | Hey y'all and welcome to One Lady Like, the show that finds out what happens when women break the rules. |
| 0:42.4 | I'm Kristen. |
| 0:43.4 | I'm Caroline. |
| 0:44.4 | And today, we're joined by the dazzling duo of Kristen Minds' Air and Jelena Greenberg. |
| 0:48.4 | They host the podcast by the book and on their show Kristen and Jelena don't just talk about self-help books. |
| 0:54.4 | They actually live by a different one every two weeks to see whether it's actually life changing. |
| 0:59.4 | So Caroline, I first stumbled on by the book in kind of a meta way because I just reached in a specially tough part of writing our |
| 1:07.4 | self-helpy, unlady-like book and I was just feeling drained and lonely. |
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