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Breakpoint

How to Say No to the Sexualization of Children

Breakpoint

Colson Center

News, Religion & Spirituality, News Commentary, Christianity

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 October 2020

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

The most common response we received to Wednesday’s commentary, in which I argued that the sexual revolution is progressing to the next stage involving children, was “So, what can we do?” It’s exactly the right question for Christians to ask, and one to which we were already committed to answer. Never should Christians talk about the fall, even the worst of human depravity, outside of the context of the victory Jesus Christ, who has overcome the world.

While the cultural indicators do point, I believe, to the further mainstreaming of pedophilia, a Christian worldview places even the most chaotic and distressing of moments within a larger Story. Christ has risen from the dead. He is Lord. And, He is making all things new. Thus, as Christian philosopher Alvin Pantinga reminds us, whenever we talk of evil, we are talking about a very real foe. But a defeated foe. 

Christians join what theologians call the “already-but-not-yet” work of the Kingdom, in what St. Paul called “the ministry of reconciliation,” in a number of ways: by championing what is good, innovating what is missing, restoring what’s broken or, especially in this case, confronting what is evil. 

In this case, social media and the internet play an outsized role in the exploitation and sexualization of kids. An honest look a nearly every metric available of the broad outcomes of widespread social media use, especially for kids, it’s clearly a net negative. It may very well be time to consider getting off of social media or, at the very least, keeping our kids off of social media. As a minimum, children should never be left to social media or, for that matter to any use of the internet, unsupervised, especially if they lack the maturity to understand it and self-govern.

I will say this a different way: It’s stupid, in the Proverbial sense of “foolishness,” to give students unfettered, unaccountable access to the apps, games, videos, or online communities of the internet, especially in the privacy of their bedrooms. To stop that intrusion into our families is a way to resist the evil of the increasing sexualization of children.

From a larger perspective, child exploitation and the normalizing of pedophilia must be understood as one of the consequences of the sexual revolution’s worst ideas. Two years ago, in an interview for the BreakPoint podcast, I discussed this with Helen Alvare, a Professor of Law at the Antonin Scalia Law School at George Mason University. As the sexual revolution has barreled onward, she observed, the emphasis in U.S. law has subtly but definitively shifted. Once broadly favoring the rights of children, the law increasingly prioritizes the “rights” and “freedoms” of adults over the rights of children.

Same-sex marriage is the prime example. Once the state proclaimed an intentionally sterile union is socially identical to a man-woman marriage, a child’s inherent right to their mother and father was erased. As Alvare put it, “The idea used to be that parents only have rights when it comes to children because they first have responsibilities. Now there’s a demand that children are something that must be given to you.”

Because my conversation with Helen Alvare is even more important today than it was two years ago, we’ve re-aired it on the BreakPoint Podcast. You can find it at BreakPoint.org, or subscribe  to the BreakPoint Podcast wherever you listen to podcasts.

Alvare is among a few who are innovating and advocating an important and brilliant strategy which, I believe, is part of the answer to the question, “so what can we do?”  We must launch a children’s rights movement, demonstrating how the so-called progress of the sexual revolution has put children at risk.

Another leader in this movement to reprioritize children is Katy Faust. Her organization, Them Before Us, is specifically dedicated to advocating for children’s rights at both the state and federal levels, and also to telling the stories of the victims that aren’t supposed to exist: the children borne from sperm donors deprived of their right to know their biological father’s name and medical information; the children raised by persons in same-sex unions who have no biological relationship to them but claim legal parentage merely because of romantic feelings and sexual choices; the children birthed by surrogates and detached from their biological mom. Katy advocates for children’s rights in a culture solely fixed on adult happiness.

T.S. Eliot once said all attempts to form a civil society without Christianity will fail. Before the collapse, however, we must “meanwhile redeem the time: so that the Faith may be preserved alive through the dark ages before us, to renew and rebuild civilization.”

Our Enemy is a defeated enemy. God will restore and rebuild. It’s an opportunity and a blessing to be a part of that.

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0:00.0

What hope is there for a culture sliding towards pedophilia? When you serve Christ the risen king,

0:07.0

there's always hope. For the Colson Center, I'm John Stone Street. This is Breakpoint.

0:12.5

The most common response we received to Wednesday's commentary in which, I argued, that the

0:18.0

sexual revolution is progressing to the next stage involving children

0:22.1

was this.

0:23.2

So what can we do?

0:24.3

This is exactly the right question for Christians to ask, and it was one to which we were

0:28.1

already committed to answering.

0:30.1

Never should Christians talk about the fall, even the worst of human depravity, outside

0:35.0

of the context of the victory of Jesus Christ, who has overcome the world.

0:40.1

While the cultural indicators do point, I believe, to the further mainstreaming of pedophilia,

0:45.6

a Christian worldview places even the most chaotic and distressing of cultural moments within

0:50.7

a larger story that Christ has risen from the dead. He is Lord, and he's making all

0:56.4

things new. Thus, as Christian theologian Neil Planiga reminds us, whenever we talk of evil,

1:02.0

we're talking about a very real foe, but it's a defeated foe. Christians join what theologians

1:08.1

call the already not yet work of the kingdom and what St. Paul called

1:12.2

the Ministry of Reconciliation. And we do this in a number of ways by championing what is good,

1:18.6

innovating what is missing, restoring what's broken, and especially in this case, fighting, confronting

1:25.4

what is evil. To be clear, social media and the internet play an

1:29.0

outsized role in the exploitation and sexualization of children. An honest look at nearly any and

1:35.2

every metric available about the broad outcomes of widespread social media use, especially for kids,

1:42.1

clearly lead us to believe it's a net negative.

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