Finding love is not easy. It is hard. And that's okay. And the more we start to accept that it is hard,

instead of expecting it to be easy or listening to people when they say, it's going to happen. It's like, no, it's hard.

Matthew is a dating and relationships expert and coach.

New York Times bestselling author. One of the most sought-after dating relationship experts in the world, Matthew Hussey.

The right person for you is not the person you trick into being with you by hiding your shit.

The right person for you is the person who accepts the things you were terrified people wouldn't accept.

Someone stops texting us or someone feels like they're drifting and all of a sudden our brain

says they must be important. You're treating me like crap and you text me and then you go cold

and then I don't hear from you, you might be on to something.

You're the one for me. Why is it sometimes that women sabotage that potential really good relationship that is right in front of them? We get into these patterns where we chase.

Well, I wanted to start this interview. I've got my friend Matthew Hussie here and a room full of beautiful individuals who are conscious learners, growers, creators.

A show of hands, again, of people who are single just so we can see. I'm curious. I didn't know this was going to be singles night,

but once everyone knew Matthew Hussey was coming,

they were like, we need help.

Help us.

And there's no shade because I was on stage in 2019.

I did a tour.

Last time I toured, and I was on stage in New York and there was someone in the audience,

it was a packed theater and this one person, she stood up and she started talking about

it being hard, being single and not knowing whether she was ever going to meet the right

person for her and the fears she had around that. And I said, I get it. Like, I get it. I understand that. I'm single too.

And someone just shouted out in the audience, why are you single? And I, and I went,

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