How do you reject a female friend who really likes you to let her down easily?

Be brutally honest.

Just say, I'm not feeling it.

I only think of you as a friend.

I mean, women typically say to you when you're stuck in friends out.

There's no chemistry.

There's no spark.

I don't think of you like that.

Just be honest with her.

Tell her the way it is.

And she'll probably like you more because rejection tends to breed obsession.

And then they become more obsessed and they try harder.

That would be so sec-y though.

I feel like that would ruin the relationship.

Like it'll get awkward.

Well, the reality is most of the time men and women, it's like they're friends.

Like I had a guy I was doing a video newsletter day and he knew this woman for like four years and he says they're the best of friends.

And then she just broke up with her boyfriend and then she brought up saying, hey, do you think we could ever be more than friends? And he said, yes.

And you can tell he's starting to, he's communicating these more into her than she's into him and she can feel it.

But she just got out of a four-year relationship. So her emotions are going to be like a yo-yo all over the place.

And it would help him if he had more choices and more options in his life instead of

putting her on a pedestal and having oneitis and thinking that that's his, his dream girl.

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